So where in N SD do your folks live? I have lived here my entire life but really wish now I could move to Hawaii...when H returned we took a family cruise there and loved it...we returned this past Feb/Mar for our 28th anniversary...the first one we have celebrated since his return!
It is a long process to rebuild a marriage from the ground up which is why I preach patience and time...I had to swallow that pill with no water but I am thankful that I did...
I can honestly say that my H and I are doing well...he is on meds for depression because when he returned he was an emotional mess...and not much better physically...this time really showed him how deep my love was and he even admitted that the OW would not have taken all this very well (I could have told him that)...forgiveness is another hard pill to swallow...it is easy to say but another to do...really make sure of this before any reconciliation takes place as it can rear it's ugly head and do some major damage if it isn't real forgiveness...
Keep moving forward...keep focusing on your positives...reach out to the others...be the best you can be!...in time it will be noticed...and not just by W!
Just a quick comment on the line from your old (yesterday?) post:
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GAL is tough because of my age and the town I live in,
What age are we talking about??! You're the same age as me and I'm a young and beautiful woman ! I'm sure Addie will tell you the same.
I agree wholeheartedly with Stella! Be careful who you're calling old!!! LOL You're only as old as you feel!
Seriously now, this whole process is very difficult, probably one of the most difficult things you will ever go through but it does get somewhat easier with time. Hang in there!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
