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Mark,

What happened to the idea of a restraining order?

What steps have you and your girlfriend taken to ensure that the OM has no further contact with her?

What steps has your GIRLFRIEND taken to clean up the mess she has created, and to help make you feel safe in your relationship?

Puppy

Hello Puppy,

Darn it - Forgot ..
You were and continue to be correct-It is HER MESS TO CLEAN UP..
She did as we suggested -

Here we go :

She got off work early yesterday to do the following:

1) She changed her phone #..
2) She contacted the City and County Police and filed a report
They want a report 1st, then upon 2nd contact - Should (OM) make 2nd contact. To contact the magistrate.

She called her buddy -the chief magistrate for the county.. He had helped her with the Probate of her son.

3) She advised her job of this guy - stalking,calling .. They can catch him at the door of the store -They are on the look out..

Also she asked her family to be on look out - For drive by her home ..

4) He didn't or hasn't tried to make contact.

We have been planning a trip to Myrtle Beach,SC all year.. As
I am on the Exc Staff for 22 counties in SC for the Shriners. -This weekend is the Spring Ceremonial in Myrtle Beach,SC. So we will be gone til Sunday doing the Shriner induction of new candidates we have 74 new Nobles and over 500 hotel rooms booked.. It is also Bike Week in Myrtle Beach starting this weekend also..

So leading to - even less chances of possibles to stalk or contact..

She is determined, I believe ?

Whats yall take on it ??

She seems sincere! Slow and steady though, okay?? Slow and steady.

I do always say, "actions, not words." Her actions are impressive.

Hey Thanks Puppy..

I am feeling the same way..

Lord didn't build the Earth in One Day..

Will keep everyone posted..

Praying for a GREAT WEEKEND..

Hello All,

Well update ...

1)No calls or contact from (OM)..
2)G/F is still pissed off at (OM) and willing to discuss any and all details or questions about EA..
3)G/F wore my ring and matching necklace...
4)Held my hand, kissed me anytime ad all I wanted.
5)Spanked her butt and playfully teased her and she responded really well and we played WONDERFULLY..
6)She/We didn't drink all weekend....
7) G/F even was and continues to make and think long term/range plans together..
8) G/F throws her body all over me while sleeping- Crossing legs, spooning , etc...

I will stay focused and slow and steady...

BACK IN THE SADDLE ...

V/R,
Mark

Hello All,

UPDATING EVERYONE...

Going great..Working through issues- Really though seems like we are on the path I always wanted ..No real issues-since she dumped OM and told him off.. His wife and him called G/F the other day - She told me and blew them off - She also doesn't like his Wife..
In refection thoughts from her to me - Seems to have been a creepy sitch in her hindsight..

Her cell phone is always just laying around..She doesn't delete anymore.. Her words to me - Not my snooping..

Thinking of moving to the Piercing Thread??

No fighting and arguing .. G/F is willing to to everything for me and I for her..

Any thought's.. I am the happiest I have ever been and more in love than before..

Wish me luck.. Though I still come here and read the stories..

V/R,
Mark

Mark,

Sounds like "Piecing" might be the best place for you know. There are wise folks over there that will help you keep on an even keel, and not get too far ahead of yourself.

Glad it's going well!

Puppy

Hello Everyone,

Well almost 2 full months and -UPDATE TIME AGAIN-

GOOD BETTER THAN COULD EVER IMAGINE.. I AM SO THANKFUL TO EVERYONE HERE.. G/F AND I ARE STILL PIERCING AND ARE ACTUALLY REALLY MAKING SERIOUS PROCESS TO A LIFETIME OF WONDERFUL DAYS AND NIGHTS..

JUST THOUGHT I WOULD DROP A QUICK LINE OR 2 ..

I PRAY FOR EVERYONE HERE FOR SUCCESS -

THIS BOARD REALLY WORKS !!!

V/R,
MARK

Great to hear of your success, Mark!

Blessings!

Puppy

I'm very glad to hear this, Mark. I really needed to hear a success story today.

Thank you for sharing this.