Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Okay, I lied in my last post. This is probably the last post I had. H did take me to court in July for the issue and I was given 4 more months to do what I was supposed to do. That time is up and it is not done because of the economy. I have agreed to let H claim one of the boys on income tax this year and I think he is giving me a break on the rest of the problem.
He was supposed to pick up something from me last week but I was busy the two evenings he wanted to do it. He hasn't called or made any new arrangement. Every so often he asks for more stuff from my house. Things he didn't ask for before the divorce. Any excuse to keep in touch! I am still standing! Hope to see something soon. All in the Lord's timing.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Husband sent me an email today and said that he wanted to pick the things up tonight. I sent him an email from work and told him tonight was fine just call me about a half an hour before he was coming so I could make sure to be home.
Not one word and he didn't show.
In case anyone thinks I have lost my mind. I was looking through old posts and realized it had been 7 months since I had my own thread so I tried to resurrect the last one. I posted on the one from last December before I found this one. So no, I am not an overachiever and posting my New Year's resolutions already.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Thanks for asking about S33. He is doing well, he is home with his family now. He will be returning to his civilian job. Has a medical retirement from the Navy but will have to be re-evaluated every 1 1/2 years.
H is a little better right now because I have something he wants. Several people including some male friends tell me that he is trying to maintain contact with me, so he asks for silly things just to maintain contact. I am still praying for him 2-3 times a day.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Well, I survived another Thanksgiving without H. I actually had a good time and didn't feel so rejected when the boys went to have dessert with their uncle, nephew, OW, H, OW's daughter and BF. I just enjoyed the quiet. I hope all of you had a good Thanksgiving. We really do have a lot to be thankful for. We are not only surviving but we are thriving.
I pray every night that there will be a great harvest of prodigals returning to the Lord and to their homes this Holiday season.
Love you all.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
