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Yoyowife #1410474 04/07/08 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By: Yoyowife

Hmmmmm...wonder if your H is missing home???


That's what I was thinking too!!! \:\) Karen


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lwb...

Yup that's definately it... it would be nice if he was actually coming to his senses slowly!!...

How did Sunday go??

tal


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H: 44
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Hi lwb-

Just stopping to say hello. Sorry, I was off all weekend, but I was thinking about you and how you did with H's party.

Take care-

Sue


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Oh no, he didn't miss home. He was too drunk to get to his dad's. He was pathetically hungover all day. We skipped going out to dinner (girls were fine with that), but H was super lame around the house. D6 made him some party games and he didn't play. D6 didn't seem to notice, but what a jerk. I played her games. ;\) Anyway, he teared up at the photo album I gave him (of Florida pictures) and kept looking at it over and over. I could not wait for him to leave last night.

We have some tests for D6 (tummy) coming up, and I am sick today (super bad cold), so I am a bit bleak today. I just wish so many things were different.

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You're such a good mom, lwb. I wish things were different for you, too. Feel better soon.


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lwb,
What a big jerk.. Im sorry that he acted this way.. but I have to tell you, you are doing really great. You are the rock for your kids, and he is just feeling sorry for himself.

I hope the tests come out ok today, and take care of you!! Get some airborne.. it really helps shorten the cold when you get one. It works for some people...& it does for me!!

Feel better!


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(((LWB)))

I agree with TAL...what a great guy! Glad you were able to rise above it while he was there and let D6 play her game...how sweet of her!

We had terribly storms here in OK all last night (not much sleep for me...) Have they made it up to you yet?

Thanks so much for your support...

L2


Me: 49
H: 49
M:21,T: 24
S18, S12
Bomb #1, 5/02; Bomb #2, 12/06; now sleeping elsewhere

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Just checking in to see how you're doing today...


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Reconciled: September 2008
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((((Lwb)))) ((((D6))))

(I wish there were some form of head-smacking notation for your H. I'd like to put something like <head-smack>H</head-smack>.)

Hope you feel better real soon.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
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Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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H lied to me and told me he told his family about us. He did not. He told one brother we 'weren't getting along'. Sadly, I set them straight without knowing it (I thought they knew). His family knows now! Oops. Oh well, I am not mad he lied, its just pathetic. He is ashamed. I said nothing of the A to anyone. I didn't bash H. Told them I loved him, but can't stop this.

His mom emailed me a very supportive and loving email. Made me feel very good. I will see her this week, as she is taking the girls for me when I work. She is praying for H.

Had a deeeeelightful day with the girls. Spent almost 5 hours at a Kids Health/Education Expo, with booths and games, and all sorts of stuff. H would have been soooo bored. lol D6 won a DVD for answering a trivia question way beyond her years (What color is the flame when natural gas is used?....). She went to sleep very proud of herself. D3 went down a huge inflatable slide about 2,000 times. She also went to sleep very proud of herself. ha!

H texted me while we were in church that he was invited to happy hour. I am in church with the girls, he is out drinking. That just proves to me how far apart we are, in so many ways.

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