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((Addie)), just wanted to check on you. Any positives to share yet :)?

Thanks for your concern Jen, nlt, Stella!

H came by mid afternoon and appeared to be somewhat distant. The 3 of us went to the driving range for about an hour. He was in an ok mood there, even gave me some pointers and encouragement.
Afterwards we came home and did a bunch of cooking together as H wanted. It went well but he was distant throughout the evening. He left me some of the cooking and took some for himself for the week. We had dinner together. He hung around until 10 pm and left. As he was about to leave he thanked me for helping out with the cooking, said he really appreciated it and we both hugged each other - I'm not sure who actually initiated the hug.

Although the day went well, I get really frustrated by his mood flip-flops. He was fine in the morning and then distant by the afternoon.

I hear you, Addie!

After all it's only too normal to get your hopes up after all the positive changes. And the setbacks are esp painful when you start hoping. Dealing with it myself now. In my dreams I was where Yellowrose is - I have such longing for success...

Hold on, Addie, we're going to make it

Wow! I'm sure you are getting frustrated. I'm proud of both you addie & stella! I'm so happy that things are going well so far. I know it is hard with the mood swings, but maybe that is a good sign that he might be coming back.

Hang in there my friends!! ((((HUGS TO BOTH OF YOU))))

You both sure have helped me!