Thanks for your thoughts. I updated the sitch on my regular thread. H used the C session as a time to lie, justify, and tell me and the counselor over and over again that he was done, not coming back, couldn't remember the last time he loved me. <sigh>
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
