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Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 frank_D #1409069 04/04/08 05:34 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	: ) F-ing awesome Frank!!! Not the pain she is feeling, sorry to say she needs to, Pain is the price for wisdom. But you! What a difference. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 Jack_Three_Beans #1409094 04/04/08 05:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Leave her be. Don't you dare spare her from this part, Frank!

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 AmyC #1409096 04/04/08 05:44 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	And don't try to FIX it! ZIP IT.

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 AmyC #1409190 04/04/08 06:41 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Are you sure he can't try and fix it just a little? And post back here in a year or two? $;\)$ Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 Jack_Three_Beans #1409206 04/04/08 06:53 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Quote: I'm taking care of myself and I've got my faith back. And I'm never going to let myself get sick again. I care about you and I have faith that things will work out for the best." Right there ^^^^^, Jack. He's trying to sell himself. I'm hoping that's where it stopped though....

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 AmyC #1409211 04/04/08 06:58 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Originally Posted By: AmyC Quote: I'm taking care of myself and I've got my faith back. And I'm never going to let myself get sick again. I care about you and I have faith that things will work out for the best." Right there ^^^^^, Jack. He's trying to sell himself. I'm hoping that's where it stopped though.... It is. I posted the entire conversation. I said very little, and left her alone. About an hour later she still looked ragged as she was leaving to go to work. But she joked with me a little and was pleasant. I let her deal with her stuff on her own. I did NOT say anything about 'trying again' or us being stronger together. Nope. Just that I have faith again and I'm not going to let things happen to me again. Last edited by frank_D; 04/04/08 07:00 PM. Current Thread

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 AmyC #1409212 04/04/08 06:58 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	I think it was more a declaration. Like me saying, "I love you, but I will never put myself through this again." Ahhhh, I hope your right. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 Jack_Three_Beans #1409217 04/04/08 07:02 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Yes, it was only a statement. Current Thread

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 frank_D #1409255 04/04/08 07:38 PM
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AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Good job, then!

Re: Reclaiming myself and my life #6 AmyC #1409456 04/05/08 12:23 AM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,035 NY F faithisbelieving Member
faithisbelieving Member F Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,035 NY	I agree. SHE needs to work this out herself. You can't take this on. She can either choose to tear this asunder....or get herself better and realize that it's no better out there. Stay the course...you ARE better...and..it's OK to have a bad day. Share it with us or with one of your 'BetterMen'...not her... FIB Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;

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