S and D got on topic of OM tonight. They related a "big fight" W and OM had last weekend. I was aware of fight as W called me and woke me up in the middle of the night to borrow car, told me OM refused to loan her his, then began to rail me comparing me to OM (she was obviously not happy with him).
What I learned tonight was that OM yelled at W, "I'm not in love with you" during the fight last weekend (in front of kids). Also OM was angry at W for being late and W was angry at OM for driving too fast (with my kids in the car). I don't get it, and no longer care to.
I think they're both more screwed up than I originally believed.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
Ouch, sleeper. I'm sorry your kids have had to deal with that.
Dark, dark. It will get your sanity back. In a way, isn't it good that this is not your problem?
I think my H is more screwed up than I knew, too. But in a way, it has been good to not have to deal with his problems. They occupied too much of my thinking.
He had yelled at me that I held him back. The truth is the other way around, and I think he knows that.
Now I can write my book....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Looks like things are not so great in paradise ( W & OM ) .
I am not one to give this advice as I cant follow it myself , however if you were to pull back then I think the wheels would start to fall off her trolley. If she was to realy believe that you may not be there for her if she was to fall?? Cant say what the outcome would be , but may force her to take a serious look at what she is doing.
I need to go post this advice to myself now ...Hah
Thank You Dave, (I feel like HAL, the computer in the movie 2001 now)
That may have worked but yesterday I committed a major backslide, have started a new thread; "That should just about do it." Time will tell if it did (do it).
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
