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Thanks for stopping by OC.. \:\)

Originally Posted By: ourcrisis
I think if you are going to be single, may as well enjoy the single scene for a little while longer before settling down again :-)


I'm not sure someone "my age" CAN enjoy the singles scene. YIKES!

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When does it end? When does the WAS stop acting to wacky? I would've thought that filing for D and telling me point blank "I don't want to be with you any more" would stop his strange behavior. But, stbxh still tried to grab my butt when he was here the other day. Then, he got teary-eyed and told me how much he misses doing stuff together. WTH is that????

No matter.. he's off to spend the weekend w/ow... I'm going out tonight with a couple gf's I haven't seen for more than a year. I soooo need a drink right now!! Maybe I'll practice my flirting \:\)

I am also trying out a new church with a friend of mine. I can't stand the thought of H parading his new family around our old church. It's the church I grew up in but he insists on continuing to attend.

It's going to be a beautiful weekend and I have MAJOR spring fever!!! Life goes on with or without them...

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Wow! That's what I call GAL!!!! Yeeeeeah!


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hey lovely!! I am an iowan too!!


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!
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TOH - Go Hawkeyes!

Ok.. More weirdness.. Does anyone understand what could possibly be up with the "I miss you" text messages that stbxh keeps sending me? How about his extreme jealousy about an innocent date that he found out that I went on?? Or, what about his long e-mails regarding our R and his regrets. I just don't get it. Is this how D'ing people act? Is this normal??

Besides that, he is pretty much living w/ow so wth?? He will fight me tooth and nail regarding his need to take D4 to ow's house in order to "transition her" into her new home and yet he acts.. I don't know.. just weird..

Other than that, all is well with my world since D4 is home with me tonight

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OK Olive, enough of the R crap. How did you GAL this weekend. W I assume a good Iowegian spent it drinking beer and tipping cows. Was this the "innocent" date???Give it up. We want details on how you tore it up this weekend.


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I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
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LOL....Yes, do tell, lo! ;\)


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My guess is that he liked being desired by 2 women. Now he will have to replace you. Because OW is not enough.

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So your H is back to flip flopping. Did you text him back? with what message?
Hey, I think the singles scene will accept any age group nowadays, ha ha. A relative (widowed) in her 60's is still out dancing whenever she has time and she is still being pursued by many men. She has no desire to remarry, but she is casually dating. She has more social life than many much younger people. I look at her and wonder where she gets all the energy??
Guess OW is not "perfect" ha ha.

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Sheesh! Tell him he needs to get over you.

Don't tell him ANYTHING about your date. If you see him and he asks, just smile, look dreamy and say, "It was great."


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