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I just didn't figure he'd be telling his dad and me how much he misses me and talking to me about working things out unless he'd already made up his mind.

Who knows, that weekend, he may have. I guess things changed though somewhere along the way.

And now I'm having an IM conversation with H which started about taxes, and now is chit chat. He's showing me a video he put together and chatting about all sorts of random stuff.

*headdesk* *headdesk*

And I just asked H if he wanted to get dinner since I needed to do some things out by where he lives. And he said yes. I'm gonna shower and get pretty.

I am soooooooo confused today.

I think it's almpost impossible to guess what goes on in their minds- no point even trying!

Hope the dinner goes well. Are you going to wear the corset?!


L.xx

Good Luck Michelle!!

Get the lobster and have him pay...

K

Wow Michelle. I hope you have a great time at dinner! I can't wait to see how it goes. Good Luck!

(((((Michelle))))

I'm trying on the corset. Not sure yet.

Have no idea what's going through his head. We shall see I suppose!

PMA though. I'm expecting him to perhaps confess he didn't break things off with OW, but I doubt he can tell me anything worse than I'm already prepared for.

Okay. Wearing the corset. Will try and get a pic to post. *deep breath* and I'm out the door.

Oh my gosh! I just caught up.. I was sad to hear the first bit, but then, seeing as she is off to Paris for the remaining two weeks of her trip, I still dont see its that great between them. And he didnt take her to meet his family - thats good! And he told his Dad he misses you !!?? Thats massive ! And if all that wasnt exciting enough, he IMs you and then agrees to meet!

I'm so glad you were brave and suggested dinner, sounds like you just went for it and didnt worry about "initiating" - I'm glad I invited my BF to the cinema. Maybe it pays to be a little braver when we get to a certain point in the sitch !? So thats incredible, and you have the corset on!! How cool it arrived in the post today! Serependipity. And now I'm waffling on and you have probably already left, so ..I hope it went fantastic and you hear some good stuff about Slasher ( :-) !) being gone. And if you end up pants to the wind like the last time you saw him, I'm dead jealous !!! Cant wait to hear how it went...

Ali xxx

((((((((((Michelle))))))))))
I know the hug is too late, but the thought is there! I don't even know what I am hoping for, maybe that whatever he says it will be honest? That would be nice! Thinking of you!