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Do you think it is reasonably likely that there will be something similar you could email about over the weekend, or early next week? I'm just thinking that the timing this week in particular might be wrong. You might still persuade me, though!

Well, the bus was late leaving work. It was like one of the buses just wasn't there. I had to wait half an hour for a bus (that's supposed to run every 15 minutes). So, I was going to be late to aikido. So, I went running instead. I have Saturday off work, so I can go to aikido then. Although that still puts me at once this week, not twice like I really want.

H is on IM. Not talking to me, but he's on. Which is a first this week so far as I can tell.

aikido and weapons.
What's there not to love? Monterey will never be the same.

I think it will be important for you to initiate contact at some point(possibly in the near future)...I just think the timing right now is bad. He is confused right now and has decisions to make over the next week or so. No matter how impersonal your email would be he may see it as pressure. Let OW take that role right now. Let her be the source of stress for him. Don't give him any reason to take it out on you or project it on to you.

Hmmmm, all good points. I'm sure I can contact him about something - taxes if nothing else. *headdesk* Federal is done, but state is turning into a mess - we have to file an amended return, but he didn't save a copy of what he submitted apparently. Lol. This is why I always did the taxes... Although I think I'm going to ask him to do them next year, but make sure he's on board with the whole married filing jointly thing.

I am sure this has been a pretty crazy week for him.

Wow. A Dutch politican released a short video today title Fitna (roughly translated from Arabic as strife). It is about Islam and the Muslim migration to the Netherlands primarily. VERY controversial. Some have called it racist, although they're not using the word correctly as the video condems radical Islam, not any particular race such as Arabs.

Warning: These are VERY graphic.

Part 1: http://youtube.com/watch?v=ge4xLb8736k
Part 2: http://youtube.com/watch?v=EU70GqQCCRg

My computer won't let me open those, but I'll keep trying.

Hows the waiting? You doing ok? You read my sitch, so you know it could be worse...lol!

My computer at work won't let me open them either as I can't install Adobe flash player. They're also long (7 and 9 minutes or thereabouts) and took a while to load.

The day is not passing quickly enough at work. And my best friend is bailing on me for dinner most likely, but I have alternate sushi plans with some friends from school. Of course, I should also go running as I did not do that this morning...choices, choices.

I was so sorry to see the turn things took. As if your H possibly fathering a baby on OW wasn't enough, now health crap! *headdesk* My stitch definitely could be worse, although I am also waiting to see if I develop genital warts and get to go in and have the doc use liquid nitrogen to remove them. Joy.

Hope the sushi plans work out. I need to get to the gym and work off some of this energy.

So where are you at in school?

Trich, Herpes & Genital Warts... Oh My! We do make a pair don't we. I can see the eligible men lined up around the block...if you don't mind the protective paper suits (think hazmat) it could be quite the party! Yah think?

I keep asking myself why he can't be done with her, but isn't the better question why can't I be done with him? Its like "How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop?" The world may never know.

Have a great weekend and thanks so much for all of your support. Keep up the waiting, you will hear from him, just make him work for it. YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!!!

Sushi did work out. Ended up hanging out with one of my friends at my apt for several hours after as well. It was really great as we hadn't had a chance to get together in a couple months.

I will figure out responses to the rest later as I am too tired to think. G'nite all!