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CW68,

I am just going to take it easy. I feel a whole lot beter today. This is why I wantto go back to work. I sit at a desk there. If I stay home I will end up lifting something or working on something that will not be good.From what I have been told it is just something that happens and you should not just lay around. you need to get back into things a little at a time.
THanks for asking. Like I said before I really do think the stress of my sitch is not doing my body any good. I have been sick more this last year than my other 49 years of life.

so to anser your question just take it slow....

DrLove

take it slow and make sure you take care of yourself. drink lots of water, eat healthy food, keep your body moving. treat your body well and you'll feel better. I think most of us on these boards could all use a little feeling better!

Hi CY,

Sorry things are not better for you. Perhaps you should see your doctor about the mind slips. I find myself being pretty forgetful too. But so far, I don't think others notice it.

H,

Glad to hear you are moving a little easier. I used to go to the chiropractor for something like that. I did enjoy those visits.

H,
I know I've posted about the Retro and the religious concerns, but just a reminder...
W and I went middle of this past January. Yes there is some talk about faith, but that is not the major overtone of the weekend. Although we were married in a Catholic church, I am not at all religious myself I actually had to get special permission from some Cardinal I think before they would let me get married there. This should definitely not be a reason to not go to the weekend. It was definitely worthwhile and helpful.

Thanks HFF,
Ya my first W became a drug addict. I did not even know it and she left me with two babies. The Catholic Church would not let me get married there unless I paid a fee to get my marriage an auld. .What??? So it's only a sin if I don't pay a fee??
So that and 8 years of catholic school kind of turned me off of the church "of man". I figure God knows me and I do talk to him often. I don't need any "man made" building to worship in. Now My W is not religious at all. I am not saying I will not go because of the religious aspect of it. I really do want to go. I NEED to go. It's just I know my W will be reluctant. But she will really have no choice. I have done so much over the last year for her. IF she wants me to keep her "secret" (which I do think she is not proud of). Then WE need to go. AFTER she gets her job so her mind will be open...

I am back because W just got on my case for trying to do too much right now. I do feel allot better. Just can't bend over right now. Sitting is fine....

Later
Husband (Dr LOVe)

Ok,

I could not sit at the dinner table tonight. I guess the chair was too hard.
BUT......I am going to work in the morning...I need something to do with my time waiting for W to get her job so we can go to retro. going on line to see what dates are availble...

Night

Dr LOve

Ok,

I could not sit at the dinner table tonight. I guess the chair was too hard.
BUT......I am going to work in the morning...I need something to do with my time waiting for W to get her job so we can go to retro. going on line to see what dates are availble...

Night

Dr LOve

Well I made it to work. Have not found the "comfortable spot" in my chair yet.

This morning I found another reason to work on my marriage. W and I use different shampoos. Yesterday mine was almost out so I stuck it upside down in the shower basket. This morning a new bottle was there.
yes Sex is a big thing missing in my life but there are a whole lot of little things to think about also...W asked me before bed last night if I wanted a heating pad for my back...

Dr Love

Excellent observation husband! Yep, it's all the little things that really aren't so little afterall...

Boy, and now you are out of commission! I was going to suggest that you get up to bat again!