Every woman in here can tell you that if she feels the least bit rejected or abandon it hits her hard at her soul, makes her question whether or not anyone finds her attractive or desireable.
-------->I feel rejected and abandon so I understand your point- but it leading me to a full on affair, I don't see. Could be because my state laws are drastically different from yours. I could lose custody of my children over adultry.
It's hard to feel rejected, but I found what helps me is to streghten myself at the gym, engage in some simple flirting and continue to streghten my brain. (read).
I hope you have not destroyed your legal battle. I am not sure what state you are in (maybe Maryland?). I hope you will be protected and it won't hurt you or force you into custody battles.
M: 39 H: 40 D: 12 S: 9 Married: 10 years Together: 11 years Dday- March 14th, 2008 Bomb-I don't love you-Easter 2008
Currently-living in same home, slowly working back towards a marriage.
Don't hate this Heather...she needs your help. Don't shun her.
I feel that today was major reconnect day with H yet you tell me it was major f**k up day with H. I know what he said and how he said it all and the tone in his voice. Maybe he really does at this point in his life feel he has outgrown me and wants to move onto bigger and better things and doesn't want this M anymore. Couldn't it just be that simple?
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
I am not sayin those feelings of rejection, etc... would lead ALL women to an affair, just that in my case I let my feelings steer me down that path and resisted for quite a while but eventually gave in.
I may have set myself up for a major battle but I have to get home from this trip and consult with a L to see.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
