KPK - I am so, so, so sorry. I know how hard this is. Definitely take that hot bath, put on some soft music, get in your toasty jammies and read a good book or magazine. Make sure you eat something healthy and get lots of sleep.
My H left again today - 3rd move out day and I'm not letting him back in that door again unless he crawls on his hands and knees over broken glass professing undying love and devotion. OK, that's a visual!
You are going to have time for you now. Take it! Grab hold of all the alone time you can get and use it to grow. I know you miss having your kids with you right now but you will eventually look at this time as a gift.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I just saw your thread about your H- I'm so sorry. I do like your visual! I have occasional ones like that about my H too! I hope your S13 is doing ok. And thanks for the support. I've calmed down a bit and am just chilling out. I'm just so tired of this.
Good luck- my thoughts are with you.
Me 39 H 45 T13 M11 D6.5 S4 ILYBNILWY July 07 OW e-mails found 12/15/07 H moved out 3/15/08
Tearing me apart but I also know that there can be no "us " down the line unless we find ourselves and heal.
It's the only way I think things will get back...and that scares me to death really. He will be out of my line of sight and the kids are old enough that we really don't need very much contact with each other.
Another step and I will do my best DB'ing
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
