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Re: Already Gone SallyM #1382725 03/10/08 04:47 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Mark, Hello my friend.. You are doing great.. The more you are upbeat and confident the more she will notice. Your moving to Florida??? tal me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Already Gone fightingirish #1383548 03/11/08 03:24 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,896 Florida K karen43 Member
karen43 Member K Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,896 Florida	Congrats on moving to FL! I live there too you know! I think you will love it, and no snow to shovel! What part of FL are you moving to? Karen Me 53 D18, S24

Re: Already Gone Ohio_Mark #1383560 03/11/08 03:43 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449 O Ohio_Mark OP Member
OP Ohio_Mark Member O Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449	Originally Posted By: Ohio_Mark mc- I have two boys... I don't need a snowblower. However, when the nest is empty... things will change. I'm movin' to Florida!!! OK, read my 03/09/08 08:57PM post again (quoted above) . My youngest is 4 years old. So I figure the move to Florida will take place around 2028. Me: 48 Divorce final May 2010 B: 19 B: 15 G: 9

Re: Already Gone Ohio_Mark #1383701 03/11/08 06:31 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,545 MN - Minneapolis/St. Paul S SueS Member
SueS Member S Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,545 MN - Minneapolis/St. Paul	Hi Mark- Just stopping by to say hello & that I hope you're having a good day! My little one will be 4 in about 2 weeks. If you don't mind, I might plan on joining you in FL in 2028 too! I think I could be ready for retirement about then. SueS ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day

Re: Already Gone SueS #1383730 03/11/08 06:54 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,896 Florida K karen43 Member
karen43 Member K Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,896 Florida	Hey, maybe we could all live in the same retirement community! I think that would be one fun group!!! Karen Me 53 D18, S24

Re: Already Gone karen43 #1384065 03/12/08 01:58 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,296 P Puppy Dog Tails Member
Puppy Dog Tails Member P Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,296	I'll bring the beers!

Re: Already Gone Puppy Dog Tails #1384129 03/12/08 03:11 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 2,793 California R runningoutoftime Member
runningoutoftime Member R Joined: May 2006 Posts: 2,793 California	Hey, my dad lives in Florida and I've been thinking of moving there too!!! Gosh, I even have a realtor sending me links of homes for sale out there (I had contacted her during the D). I was thinking I might buy an old Victorian in Springfield (northern Florida). Although I don't plan to go out there for quite a few years as well... but, evetually I'd like to..... maybe some of you might want to rent a room from me or nearby and we could all hang out on the beach and sip chocolate martinis on Saturday nights! $\:D$ (Boy Mark, you really started something here... A mass DBers exodus to Florida!!! Yikes, we'll all have to move over to the WAS board!!!!) There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.

Re: Already Gone runningoutoftime #1384333 03/12/08 02:47 PM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666 Y Yoyowife Member
Yoyowife Member Y Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666	OOOOOOHHH, me, me, I wanna live in one of your rooms, that would be the life!!! Sun, sand, surf, good friends, what more could you ask for?!!! Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon

Re: Already Gone Yoyowife #1384507 03/12/08 05:34 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449 O Ohio_Mark OP Member
OP Ohio_Mark Member O Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449	Yeah, well for me the "double-whammy" was leaving 20-degree temperatures and going to Florida for four days... then coming home and digging out of 14 inches of snow... Me: 48 Divorce final May 2010 B: 19 B: 15 G: 9

Re: Already Gone Ohio_Mark #1385185 03/13/08 12:52 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449 O Ohio_Mark OP Member
OP Ohio_Mark Member O Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449	Update: If you recall, in January, she opened up her own checking account, and ordered her employer to deposit her payroll into her own account. At that time, we agreed that I would (continue to) pay all of the bills, and she would deposit money into my account for this purpose. Tomorrow will be the fourth paycheck that she has received under this arrangement, yet she has made just one deposit into my account. The car payment and mortgage are currently delinquent (damaging my credit). I sent her the following email message: Attached is the most recent statement of our shared expenses. Tomorrow will be the fourth paycheck that you have received since moving to your own bank account. As of today, you have made only one deposit into my account. The car payment is now 30 days delinquent, and as of Monday, the mortgage payment will also be 30 days delinquent. Can you please help me understand your reluctance to share in the burden of our family's expenses? Also, we are scheduled to meet tomorrow at lunch, presumably to discuss logistics for the divorce. Me: 48 Divorce final May 2010 B: 19 B: 15 G: 9

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