I'm still here, I was going to let this thread lock up and start a new one. But anyway here is the latest.
W and I had arranged to meet for lunch yesterday, both of us were to drive to a rendezvous point half way between our respective work places. Anyway I get to the meeting point, no sign of W, I call her on her cell, and she's at a different work location some miles away and can't meet up. I was quiet peed off that she didn't inform me that she couldn't make it cos I'd driven all this way. W said but she said she left message at my desk, but I told her I was away from my desk all morning and must have missed the message. Anyway W apologised several times and said hoped we could meet up again some other time.
This evening I told W I was really disappointed that we couldn't meet up and she said she felt just as bad cos she was really, really looking forward to meeting up as well.
Ok I'll side track a little. W is outdoors a lot in her work so she tends to wear big thermal underwear in this weather. When it comes to bedtime she'll wear grandma's favourites, big belly warmers for comfort, also they are good to keep me at bay. Lately at bedtime she has been wearing smaller thong type underwear, which is nice.
Tonight when I snuggled up to her I realize she was wearing nothing under her nightdress. Hmm nice surprise. However being the gentleman that I am I couldn't take advantage of this cos W fell asleep as soon as we got into bed together. In the good old days if W wanted to intiate sex she wouldn't say anything she would just come to bed without underwear. I think tonight W may have been wanting to make up for this afternoons disappointment but it's the ole' falling asleep routine which got in the way. ( see my first few post on this thread).
(So the border was left unguarded but I wasn't prepared to cross ).
Lan
PS: piecing is quiet, that's why I started the whole discussion on forgiveness, it gave me something to talk about daily.
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