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Suggesting that will do nothing, unfortunately. Nothing you will say will have merit in there state.

Don't do it.

It's a dead-end street.

It's like telling a crack addict they might have a little drug problem. Remember: don't accuse or confront her, don't defend yourself.

I won't say it. I have resisted thus far and will continue to do so.

I did accuse and confront her awhile back, when I found out for sure about om from his wife. And that was not something I will do again. I have had no contact with om's wife and don't want any.

I read quite a bit on your thread bomb. How are things going for you, some of the situations you described were like you had a hidden camera in my living room...

I was commenting on someone else's thread awhile back on the amazing consistency of MLC behavior. It really is kinda spooky.

Then again, the behavior of the LBS is also relatively consistent. I suppose we humans are a lot more predictable than we imagine.

It is strange isn't it. And to hear the MLC person say "I am not having a mid life crisis", makes your stomach turn.

Especially in our position where you can see it so clearly..

w just came by work. Apparently things at her work are going badly, bosses are questioning her pretty seriously.

Little history: wife is a counselor, om was one of her students. om's w went to w's work and talked to bosses about what was going on. They were not amused.

I stayed cool, she kept asking what she did wrong, I didn't tell her.. I just kept telling her that I was there for her. She was crying and upset she asked me why I didn't hate her. I told her I couldn't..

I know that this just "is what it is" but for a few minutes I was able to be there for her and it felt good. And now back to my regularly scheduled programming...

Good news is it seems like MLC.

Bad news is it seems like MLC.

The confusion is the ally to your marriage. As weird as that sounds.

Typical Jack answer!!

Hey Jack, long time no see

Thanks Jack,

Normally I would have launched into a speech about what she was doing wrong, thankfully I didn't this time.

Your and others advice is sinking in...

Weekend

Presidents Day off - during the day.

Had jury duty...got picked.

17 days of planned deliberation...

Was my post a little too vague for you? Or does it make sense?