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Tonight I missed an important opportunity to validate her feelings. Instead I told her how good I did instead of taking the high road.

I think I'll call her tonight to validate her feelings.

I'm sorry things aren't working as planned. Our financial problems can be worked out. We didn't get into this overnight and it will be awhile before we bail ourselves out of this mess.

Well, I've decided not to call her. Instead I'll validate her feeings the next time. Now that I know what's going on I'll be ready.

Some friends my W and I went to a concert last night. I walked ahead looking for our seats in this crowded arena. I felt this tug on my back pocket and I turned around to see if I was being robbed. It was my W she held my hand. I though she was afraid of getting lost. However, when we got past the crowd she still held my hand. I thought it was only a fluke, but she still held my hand. Last night everywhere we went she held my hand.

Fixer

Hiya Buddy!

She held your hand.

Luv ya

Fixer!
Hi!
Holding your hand is good!

God knows you are one patient man! Very admirable, cant think of anyone else here I would love to see things work out for more then you.

you are truly a good good man.

Hi Lissie and Karen,

I know its not a big deal to most people but it's something. She surprised me whem she reached for my hand. I long for a kiss or the words ILY. Most of the night she sleeps downstairs and I have the bed to myself.

I feel the more time we can spend with each other the better our R will be.

Fixer

Fixer,

I think it's a big deal and I'm so happy for you. I'm sure you'll manage to spend the time together and things will improve. Your patience paid a nice dividend.

Fixer
When I was w/ my ex, I would of given the moon and stars if he held my hand, its a step. The kiss and ILY may come next.

Good Luck to you!

Grace and Karen,

Thanks.

Things have slowed down. Since Sunday I haven't been expecting much. Last night she slipped into bed so quietly I didn't notice it until the morning.

Fixer

{{{Fixer}}}

How wonderful to read your posts!

Not slipping into bed......not good.

Slipping in quietly........Pricless.

Take the good, leave out the bad.

Kudos to you Fixer....for not giving up.

Hugs,

Jeanette

Lately, I've been thinking about wanting to cheat on my wife. So what do I do? I tell my W about it. Why b/c I've been feeling guilty about some dreams I've been having.

I've been dreaming that I'm about to cheat on my W, then I stop myself. Sounds stupid I know its a dream, but dreaming is my only escape from my horrible stich. Now, my terrible M is creeping into my dreams.

My W hasn't changed and I don't think she will. It looks like her MLC is going to stay with her for a long time.

Fixer