Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.
Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.
I read. Currently John Grisham's "The Appeal". Good read.
I go to the coffee shop to people watch. People are fascinating.
how about you? ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
Haven't had much time to anything lately, but did go take a nice long walk today it felt good.
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Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.
Walking is good. I used to run until an unfortunate injury brought that to a screeching halt.
What can you do to engage your mind so that you don't spend to much time thinking?
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
Life is pretty busy, my mom finally came home from rehab. had been in and out of hospital and rehab. for about as long going through this mess I'm in right now, so 2 months now.
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Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
Haven't had much time for anything else too much stress related problems just trying to do to much and not getting any sleep, unfortunately.
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Married 19 years Together 24 years ILYBNILWY 1/7/08 OW 10/11/07 ended affair 3/14/08 came home 3/14/08 last contacted ow 3/17/08 4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.
That's the other thing I was going to bring up! I was going to wait until tomorrow, but since you are here... A big part of surviving this is Getting a Life. You'll see it as GAL, a lot! You find a life for you. A lot of us have forgotten that, or left it behind. It helps you survive. The other thing it does, eventually, is to make you more interesting to your spouse, when they are ready to be interested. You won't look like a desperate, lonely person. You'll look like an interesting person.
By the way, it was 82 here today. I think we have left "winter" behind!
