Also I believe she mentions that by educating ourselves about MLC, it helps to not take things so personal.
MrsH
You are absolutely right about that. Reading reasons/theories from good resources can really help in that respect. And can help you see that there may be a light at the end of the tunnel. Seeing how some have been successful, and discerning between the lines how others have not been successful is also useful.
sg
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001