Thanks KLM. I actually bought a book last night. I used to read alot but have not read any since I moved out in October. I have a stack of movies to watch also. It is amazing how times flies but at the same time stands still. So many movies and books to finish. And I have not played my game which I used to love to play. I have not logged in and probably don't remember how to work the character. Maybe I'll try that tonight.
LOTR Online. I used to love playing it. I started because my husband is a big Everquest player and this way I could sit next to him and play my game while he played his. Lot of good that did huh.
I have read on here so much that is is usually the LBS decision in the end and I believe that.
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Really? I haven't heard that one but I do hope it is true! Crossing my fingers on that.
Not to speak for klm, but from being here a long time, I think you may have read this a little differently than it was meant. I am guessing that klm meant it's often the LBS decision to finally get off the fence and move on. If you read through the "Surviving the Big D" board, a LOT of those are people that were the LBS and hung on for a long time - finally got tired of the waiting, and filed for D.
I know that was from a few days ago... catching up on your newer posts, wow you sound wonderful!!
Not sure on your name change question. I'm sure it's happened, but I haven't seen it.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Nik is right. We grow so much during the process and a lot of times our spouses do nothing to work on themselves. A lot of them it seems are content in being in limbo forever. Our decision to move on can become OUR decision...not something that is being done to us or forced on us.
I haven't seen anything on the name change either. I wouldn't want to do it until it was aboslutely final. If you still want to reconcile, I don't see the point.
Just cruising on here. Worked out again tonight. I have noticed this week my appetite has picked up. And my coffee intake has went up and sodas has gone down. Weird week.
I volunteered with my state employee association for 2 functions at the meeting tonight. I want to get more involved with the politics of the association. Sounds very interesting when they talk about it. I hope that counts a GAL.
Another day of not hearing from the husband. Makes 20 straight days of no contact and 5 months since I have seen him. Pretty good since we work at the same place.
Well coffee is ready and I am heading to read DB book again. I am actually kinda tired naturally. I usually take something every night but tonight I am just pooped out.
