I am sorry to hear about what's going on with you. You might want to talk to a lawyer about how to protect yourself if she is becoming fiscally imprudent.
W and I are at home together with D7...both work till noon and then do stuff with D7 (yesterday we were rained out). W just asked me if I would like to join them this aft. sledding. I wonder if I should refuse and do my own stuff (space) or go with them. FYI I rarely say no and usually jump at every occasion....no would be a 180. At the same time W complained that we never did anything together pre bomb. Don't know what to do but I am leaning towards staying home..
Did not go sledding. W asked me if I wanted to join them for supper on Thursday night. MIL will be in attendance....i did not even answer......I know this is wrong as per DB but at the end of the day I would not be comfortable in such a setting and two NOs in one afternoon will make her start thinking a little. At the very least give her some of her own medicine back. I guess i should not expect too many more invites from W today. In an attempt to see more people socially, I have acceted an invitation to go fo supper at my sister's home tommorow. It will be nice to see BIL and the nephews.
I think if you really didn't want to go it would likely have been difficult for you to act "As If" at the dinner with MIL.. so it's best to decline. Just my 2 cents!
The IL then is strange for me as well. Both my MIL and FIL sent me birthday cards and gifts. It was awkward for me to accept something from them. Apparently (according to W) they still "love" me.
Woog, if I had the scratch I would fly down there tommorow and I would book us a huge suite No seperate rooms....we would have to keep an eye on each other so none of us succomb to any carnal desires.
Maybe I would even let you beat me ....wait a second, that doesn't sound right at all. I would go easy on you on the golf course! There that is much better.
Ahhhhh redheads....did I mention I am a big fan....actually I am a big fan of woman period......rigth now though, I only have eyes for two (D7 and W).
W started to get on me last night about what she perceives as a defeatest attitude...she stopped and said why am I getting riled up, it's none of my business.
W continues to tell me about her itinerary which does not include me but what can I expect. Meanwhile due to the lousy weather we are having my apt. will not be available until Friday.
