not to chime in and seem presumptuous but do you envision anything like: "Dear I don't want to blind side you and I have spent lots of time pondering. I don't expect to have all of this wrapped up in the next few minutes. Tell me some of the thoughts you've had..."
just a suggestion
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
Stubborn - I think that's a good idea! Acknowledges that from her side this may feel a bit out of "nowhere" and gives her a chance to express her feelings too.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Suppressing your feelings doesn't make your relationship run any more smoothly. If anything, it will give rise to more tension later on. Take some time for yourself and figure out a way to discuss the matter at hand.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Suppressing your feelings doesn't make your relationship run any more smoothly. If anything, it will give rise to more tension later on. Take some time for yourself and figure out a way to discuss the matter at hand.
Wow! It seems the person that is writing your horoscope is watching you from afar!
I truly hope the talk gives you some answers that you have been looking for.
Hugs
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
