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Luv,
I just read the whole thread and have butterflies in my heart \:\) I know other people said but '2 steps forward and 1 step back..' but after all it goes to forward.
We are walking with you from far far aways \:\)

Beauty


Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2
M:7y Together:8y
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bomb:11/01/07
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OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around
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thanks Beauty. that is so sweet.


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Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
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luv,

Hang in there, I know this is a struggle, but you are doing so well... Patience.. I know its hard..

Take care


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thanks Tal. Another positive step today. phew! We have aol. He unblocked me so that I can see him on my buddy list and so we can instant message each other. He's had me blocked for months.


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Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
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Great!! thats a good thing!!


me: 37
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Married for 18 years this june
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yep, I just need to give him the "right" kind of space.


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Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
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Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
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Luv,
You haven't posted in a while? How are you?




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


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Hi everyone,
I have great news! It's been a crazy few weeks and the rollercoaster ride has NOT been fun. But...my H returned home last night for good. He has moved back in and so now the process of piecing begins. I am hoping that we will be able to go to retrovaille since I've heard so many good things about it. My H is meeting with someone for a job today and hasn't gotten back yet. We will be finding out what his schedule will be soon.

I am very happy but also nervous. I really want things to work out. There has been a lot of damage but I do believe that we can get through this and come out stronger. Thanks everyone for all your support. This list, the friends I have made and my faith has gotten me through this and now for the rest of it.

Have a great day!


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Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
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Luv,
Congratulations, my dear, I'm so happy for you. Remember you still have lots of work to do, but I know you can do it.

Hugs!!!!




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


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I know I can too Yoyo. I have worked hard the last few months and learned alot about myself, my H and my faith. I am looking forward to a better, stronger and more loving marriage.


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Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
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