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Bethis fo sho. And he has been doing guilt gifts since day one.

My kids get excited about it for a day or sooo. YOu should see my back yard, (sigh) it's like a circus full of stuff.

I am never going to forget what he has done.

But this is where I get all confused (insert confused music)

I feel like I am not his judge or his jury, sooo I think that being his "friend" will take me time, but it will be best for my children.

It is all very confuzzled. And day by day, and I don't really want to think that far ahead . How about a long island iced tea for you lady.



Yu are right Suzy. HUGS dear heart.


Um I peeeeeed.


I think you are not going to need my drama queen T shirt Fender. You are gonna be fine.




Hope-11, they are such weirdos. Javier does it, so he doesn't put a bullet in his mouth, before bed. They don't think about our feelings first, just their own, but we are used to that already right? ick have a great day lovey.



Whatever matt, where are my shoes then?

On the way. The snow and ice have slowed down the delivery trucks.

Got it in one, babe.

Harsh, but true.

Maybe some day they'll get over themselves, as we have gotten over them???? :-)))

kisses

J

Then the fireguys won't need to follow you. You know they just need an excuse to drive slowly and blow that air horn.

Aint it the truth! thats what my ex wanted, I told him ok! cause B and his ex talk a few times a week, so we should too!! He said, ummm no not that friendly! hahahahaha jerk.

It gets easier Lissie, the X in the D box, the Ms not Mrs. I even changed my name back. I wanted to share the name w/ the people who love me the mostest ( S the exception of course)

All part of the journey, I wonder when your ex has to mark the X in the D box what he'll feel?

Do you think he actually puts an X next to Dumbass?

Interesting..........

I do a lot of surveys and some of them have a list for the same box that says,

• separated
• divorced
• widowed

Like the three are one in the same. Maybe they are to some but not to me.

Actually, you go through grieving in all three...

yeah but I think H dying and leaving me are two different things and can't see how they could be grouped into the same life box.
My friend that did have her husband die thinks it is odd too. Also, on some of the paper work she has come across there is no box for being widowed. She wonders about that and also hates that there has to be any boxes in the first place.

An analogy I used years ago

I may not like my box. I did not want to be in it.
I will make the box the shiniest box around.

Now Lissie are those firefighters still behind you or are you barefoot?