I had to fill out some school paperwork for the babies, and had to fill out the Marital Status box. My first weird Divorced moment.
I checked Divorced, and I felt, Like I was waiting for that Dramatic music to play in the back ground.
It was weird.
Then Javier wants to be my best friend now. I am like, Wait a minute here, let me adjust, I spent 2 years thinking you were gonna place a bomb under my car, now you wanna email jokes.
Just Chill homey.
He bought the kids a Wii, for Valentines day (Divorce guilt gift)
I should have a sale on Guilt gifts.
I made them cards, and and made them Cd's.
They will love it more.
No cookies or brownies left. Sorry BOYZ. (sigh) you guys are so easy peasy, as long as your bellies are full, you are happy.
CA-UTE.
Ok Bar is open, even tho its early.
NICOLE 6---------- I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
Funny how being their friend can erase all of the sh@tty things they've said and done. (at least in their minds!) It's no quite so easy for us to forgive and forget.
Yeah well their will be lots more guilt gifts for a while so prepare yourself. It used to always piss me off especially when I knew I couldn't compete because he had the checkbook. Guess what? In the big scheme of things none of that matters. So let him spend away.
I had my first divorce box check in the past week also. It truly is a weird experience for those of us who weren't in the driver's seast of the divorce!!!!!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
We need to start a 'Lissie's shoes are so hot they can ________' Thread. I would but I am too shy and when women see my shoes they laugh and throw rocks. (when I am wearing shoes)
example: Lissie's shoes are so hot a fire brush truck follows her to prevent forest fires.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
I haven't had to check the divorce block yet but I just got called by the company that interviewed me last week and they want me to come in. I think that checked box is only a day or so away?
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Then Javier wants to be my best friend now. I am like, Wait a minute here, let me adjust, I spent 2 years thinking you were gonna place a bomb under my car, now you wanna email jokes.
I know how you feel....my X is doing the same thing. A couple of days ago, he asked me if we were okay. I just said yeah....in my head, I was thinking you could have cared less what I thought a year ago or how bad your every selfish move hurt me and now after everything you want to know if we are okay. Still not livin' in the real world now is he?
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Nothing like filling out the 1040 for the first time as single again. Mine was pretty joyful though, since I had all the house stuff just on my tax return, so I got a NICE check back!
"I made the wall of shadow draw back, beyond desire and act, I walked on.
Oh flesh, my own flesh, woman whom I loved and lost, I summon you in the moist hour, I raise my song to you."
