I mean, I know what I have planned......and it's going to be totally selfish But I would love to hear what you've got up your sleeves!!
On another topic, since I am stuck in the house for a few days, I have been watching alot of tv. Have you ever wattched My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding For some reason I have been riveted to it The bride to be just smiled up at her soon to be h and said.....Oh but it's all so sparkly and he caved......for a total amount of 180,000.00 AND this was just for the pre wedding dinner necklace, earrings and a necklace. and it was so cute.....they are having a cigar bar, and the custom made matches are going to say "A match made in Heaven" and this too, could be yours for 15,000.00!!
I did get kinda pissed when he drew the line at $30.00 per chocolate candy that went with the dinner plates. Geeeeeesh!
I did like the Martini Louge (sp) 2 blocks of ice placed on either side that has like slide thingy going through the middle of the ice and you add the ingredients and it louges down the frozen ice into your glass! Oh Snap! It looks delicious!
All this could be yours for a total cost of $550,000.00 and they just said it was so worth it.
Gasp! I really must watch something else
Wait! Another one is starting. A mexican kabillionaire who is 40 something is marrying a 19 year old college student. In the Bellagio Ballroom. A Million dollar Mexican Fiesta! Hmm...wonder if they will roast a goat
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Please come back and let me know if the mexican kabillionaire paid the 159,557.74 to have viagra party favors for all of his homies.
How about the 1.5mil it would take to make a wedding video that could make his 40 year old self look more like the 25 year old his bride is gonna wish she had gotten, after the glow of mullah wears off that is!
You crack me up girl, you sound good and I wish you a fantabulous new year.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor
Thank you for the wonderful post. I would be lying if I said everytime I read it, it makes me cry...especially this part Jeanette, I will add that your H saying to let him know if you need anything could be his way of saying "I want you to know I care".
I wish I could believe that, but I don't. I remember being in 2 car accidents and having a severe Urinary Tract Infection which the Drs thought was apendicitis, and I had to stay overnight in the hospital, well that was in the early stages and I would call him up crying and scared because I had no one here.....he didn't care then, so I really don't think he cares now. It is a wonderful thought tho
I am feeling much better today and can make it up off the couch! LOL! I have to go get some groceries and get away from the Discovery Channel!! OMG! Yesterday it was all about fantastic marriages ranging from $35,000.00 to 1.5 million. Today BABIES! And how the communication process is so important to a baby. From facial expression to how you use your voice. Oh, I did squeeze in Forrest Gump and cried over it I think I am having an attack of the hormones here
My son will be home tomorrow so all is good!
Happy New Year to all you WONDERFUL KIND CARING SUPPORTIVE SURVIVING LOVING PEOPLE!!
God is going to bless us all for facing our fears and our life with love and determintation!
HUGS
Jeanette
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How long is recuperation? I read that women try to hang on to the marital home as a sense of security and usually it puts them in a financial bind and they end up losing most everything.
Your sitch is different though, you have a big alimony waiting for you on the sale of the house. Hurry!!! you go girl!
Recouperation is as long as I need it! The more I move around the faster I recoup!!
Your right about the home thing. When he first left, then filed for a d a year later the house was worth 100,000 more than it is now. But that no longer matters. I will be happy in a small apt with less responsibility. Besides, I can travel and take some time off and not have to worry about mowing the grass
Procrastination sucks!
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mowing the grass! That makes me laugh...thank you! The day after H left I was backing out of the driveway and burst into tears looking at the front lawn. All I could think is, "Oh my gosh! What am I going to do? I don't even know how to start the lawn mower!" How dumb is that? All the other worries I have now and that is what decided to come into my mind?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
But I would love to hear what you've got up your sleeves!!
For some reason I have been riveted to it 
The bride to be just smiled up at her soon to be h and said.....Oh but it's all so sparkly 
and he caved......for a total amount of 180,000.00 AND this was just for the pre wedding dinner necklace, earrings and a necklace. and it was so cute.....they are having a cigar bar, and the custom made matches are going to say "A match made in Heaven" and this too, could be yours for 15,000.00!!
I think I am having an attack of the hormones here