Just like other said, I think you are on the right track but you have to take it easy, meaning do not be overenthusiastic. DB is a process that you have to be conscious and were of all the time.
In my case, last night W said first time since the bomb the word "We" and I am already building castles in the air...
Me 42 W 27 Married: 6 years Together: 7 years Daughter: 3 years Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country) EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07) Papers served on 2/6/2008
Wooglint is not a real name. It's effective a college fraternity nickname. Woog or Woogy is perfectly fine and in some ways better.
You are capable of running your own "delay". Just take a deep breath. Pause, and then say what you think is best. Always take that breath. At worst case someone will think you are being thoughtful and composed. In the best case you won't say something you regret.
