Tom, If you go with the Latin dance idea just stay out of the cloakroom and put a lock on your zipper cuz they'll swarm ya and before you know it you'll find yourself Cha-Cha-ing aimlessly into the parking with a shellshocked glaze in your eyes. It ain't pretty, my man. Best to prepare yourself with a mid-week class before tackling the Friday night "it's every woman for herself" crowd. May the force be with you. Oh, bring a pair of handcuffs!
Well.. It would have to be a partners class I think ? Especially with a friday .. as we always are together then ? So.. not sure about the handcuffs . That would take some discussion here, Wisis ?
Great, could you drive her up Tom? Don't worry about a passport, you can just keep her in the car ashtray. Wow, my first real date!
Oh btw, what will Muriel be wearing? Tell her I don't have any handcuffs for the class but I do have my old Military Police holster and dress cap. I'm thinking of wearing those while going topless, kind of a Village People's Tango look. Let her know, OK. Does she have a traffic cone I could borrow?
Thought I'd check in and see how you are. I started to post on Surviving, because DB strategies have not worked for me, and I was just trying too hard, for absolutely ZERO return in 15 months. Once I made the decision to tell her I was putting money away, I felt totally empowered. It was like I took charge of everything. A huge load off my back. I spoke with a co-worker in the States today, who told me my W. was totally self-centered and a mean person. while this was not all her fault, for sure, I'm beginning to see thius as true.
If she closes the joint account, I can re-route ALL of my pay, and send her a check. I refuse to be a martyr. It's just not worth it. If you have the eneergy look in on me from time to time. I'll do the same.
Yes, it is amazing how different you feel once you take some action rather than just feeling acted upon! I think it also garners some respect on the part of the S when they see we actually do have a set of balls! Thanks for checking in FLTC.
OK, what is it with women and this need they have to tell me they think they are fat! OSB pulled the old "I think I'm fat" line on me today. I was in her office ON BUSINESS and a discussion arose on exercise, health and then the old "I'm too fat" line rose it's ugly head. I said "you are not fat" and she, of course, said she was. I replied "you are not, look at you, how could you possibly be fat!" At this point my boss walked in an interupted this "business" discussion and told me she needed to see me. As I left I stuck my head back in the door and whispered tauntingly "you're not fat, you're not fat". She laughed. I remember CB used to bring the "I'm too fat" thing up too and we'd get into the "no, you're not - yes, I am" debate. Is there a right answer to this question? Are you supposed to say "you're not fat"? I mean in a sense you are denying their opinion of themselves but if you say "yes, I guess you are" well, I can't imagine a good outcome to that either. Is this part of the "thingy" Tom? Hey, let me know about Muriel OK, and tell Muriel she's not fat either, just to get it out of the way!
Muriel never says anything.. but she looks like she would sort of drift away in a small breeze so I dont think she thinks that she is fat or anything like that ? But.. what do I know ? She can come and visit so long as you dont roll down a window while driving... jsyk ? Pending GB's approval of course ?
You are not asking my opinion.. but if I were you I would ask your inky friend if she thought you were fat ? Just for fun.. but that is me, eh ? Or if she thought your head was too pointy ?.. something like that.. ?
