My friend's W has gotten rid of most of the OM's items, except for these. She claims she never thinks about them, but as we all know, its like a constant knife in the back. So, my friend decided enough is enough... I haven't heard if they sold them. At first she was going to mail them back, but they both agreed it was too late for that.
My friend's W has gotten rid of most of the OM's items, except for these. She claims she never thinks about them, but as we all know, its like a constant knife in the back. So, my friend decided enough is enough... I haven't heard if they sold them. At first she was going to mail them back, but they both agreed it was too late for that.
LWB,
Ok if it will help them they can just send them to me..... I'll get rid of them....
Dr. love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Thanks for the advice. Will leave it this week - S7 (Tuesday S8!) birthday, so don't want to rock the boat and we have friends coming across next weekend. So it will be after that.
I have honestly never seen any presents OP brought for W. Suspect a CD set in the car is from him, but W told me she bought them and I have not pressed on that either...just let it slide.
OK, so life has taken a turn this week. W has been fighting a cold since last week and this weekend we thought it was on the mend...she was still tired and sleeping most evenings. Yesterday was her day off (with children as they were both ill) and I came home and asked her how she was feeling (picture the scene, W has been either sick in bed or under the duvet downstairs all day);
W - Fine!!! (angry tone) Me - (Bad day) I only asked!!
Things slid a bit from there and I was angry with her reaction. Later on, she stated that she felt like she had hit rock bottom. Well, as the evening progressed, W health dropped like a stone, culminating in her phoning her boss and warning she might not be in (W has had only 2 days off in the last 3 years).
W has bad night, no medicine touching her throat or fever and at 7.00 a.m., I am wakened to her being sick and having diarrhoea at the same time. Got her back to bed, sorted out the children (they're not attending school also), got S8 to open his presents, fed them breakfast and left for work.
At 11.00 a.m., get a distressed phone call from W, saying she had fainted and injured herself and could I come home. So within 10 minutes, back at home and spending the rest of the day acting as Florence Nightingale (minus the lamp) for her. Also went up the Health Centre (twice) and arranged a visit by the GP.
W is now signed off for 2 weeks with Laryngitis, so hopefully this will give her time to think and reflect! In the meantime, I will be Mr Nightingale and look after her in a loving way :).
Sounds like you've had quite the night/day. So your 8 year old is sick on his birthday? That stinks.
Maybe your W's time at home with you pampering her will show her what she could be giving up. I hope it all goes well. Sounds like you're going to have your hands full for a while.
My prayers and well wishes go out to your and the family!
Hugs from the US.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
My main man...... Weird thing....... not long after I found out about the pics / affair. My W also got really sick.... It got really bad. Had to take her in for all sort of blood tests, X-rays. (They stuck her whole body in one of them). I had to run to the store every 20 mins to get something for her. She was really weak. I had to take her to the hospital twice to get hydrated. Never really found out what it was.... She even at one point asked me to wash her hair in the kitchen sink. (Closest thing I had to sex with her in months, it was HARD concentrating on what I was doing.
Anyway I started thinking...... The lord moves in mysterious ways... Just maybe.... Maybe the bad things were getting flushed out of her system.... Take care of her buddy... Don't pay attention to any "remarks" she might say... It's hard but DON"T TAKE ANY OF IT PERSONAL.....you said it yourself "Things slid a bit from there and I was angry with her reaction.”. Try to keep a POSITIVE ATTATUDE no matter what the "Devil" throws at you out of her mouth....It's not her talking.... Good luck buddy. Give son a hug for me...
Dr. Love (Husband)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
OK, so wife is still sick and I am doing everything - though it is fun. Made soup (out of a tin) for her today and just being there for her is showing me in a great light - I hope.
SueS, you will be very proud. Her phone is sitting in the kitchen and other than just checking if a txt has come in (and then take it to W to read), I haven't touched it.
W is sleeping now and I will go up later to plump up her pillows.
Dr Love, I get to check out her rash!!! It's in all the right (or wrong) places - woo hoo!
