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possibly a little bit of an insight from w:

she made an analogy that thinking about sex for her is like how i feel when i read one of those emails about best friends, or your guardian angels, or a poem about life, and friends, and whatever else that makes a woman feel all mushy inside. she said that's how she feels when and if i send her an email pertaining to something sexual ( trust me, i don't except for this one about the positive things about having sex: good for the skin, makes couples closer, etc. very cute, nothing pornographic), therefore, i would imagine that's how she feels about sex in general.

does anybody know what i am talking about?

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Mushy, pah. Nauseated, more like.

I would not necessarily extrapolate. Since she used the email example, perhaps she just meant that your *emails* about sex affect her that way, unless she said something specific that makes you think differently.

I'm sure you mean well, but sending email like that is tantamount to saying, "See? I'm right about this. Even scientists agree. You are wrong and getting wronger all the time." It could very likely make you come off a bit patronizing and smug.

Not so much sexy ....


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