Would those be Slippery Nipples or Buttery Nipples??? ...why do they give such a good drink an embarassing name? ...Like the one I ordered once called an "orgasm"...try ordering that with a straight face
^5 Jeff...I get plenty of hugs from H these days and pretty sure he wouldn't want me hugging "strange guys", lol
Well it was my second drink...and yes it was a guy...H wouldn't order it for me because he said that would not be something he would say to a guy at all...so I got up the courage and just said, "I'll have an Orgasm"...followed my, "The kind you drink."...realizing that could be taken wrong too...I just told the bartender that they really should give them numbers to order by...he said half the fun is in watching someone try to order it...
As I recall it was a good drink...I couldn't tell you anything about it now as it has been probably 5 or so years ago that I had it...
I do remember the Buttery Nipples and Slippery Nipples...and, I made H order them for me...he did, even though it was a male bartender...he just said, "She would like _____." After the first one I could re-order by just saying, "I'll have another!"
We have a ton of Belgian Truffles around here...I need to start handing them out...they were on sale for $1.99 lb...what a steal! But now I am done with them...
Feeling kind of puny tonight...I think we all have a bit of the flu bug or something...seems we all feel a bit icky to the tummy...hopefully it won't last long!
Things are going, not changing, but maybe a tiny bit more relaxed. Though that might just be me.
W worked a 12 hour (7-7) nursing shift yesterday. She got home around 8 or so. The boys and I had eaten fajitas for dinner, and I had saved enough so could have some. Sometimes she wants to eat after work, sometimes not. She seemed to appreciate it.
Then later, I went to tell her goodnight, I think, and she was coming out of the guestroom with a glass. I asked if I could take it, as I was headed for the dishwasher. She rejected that offer, and proceeded to take it herself. She is really very resistant to accepting any offer like that. To the point where I ca ask if I can do something, she'll reject it from me, but accept it from the kids. I need to quit thinking about that, I think.
I still don't like her much, that makes this pretty hard. I think traditionally when you are courting someone, you at least like them a bit! I need to figure out how to get past that!
Hey, here's a thought. Maybe when you are offering to do something for W (like take the glass to the dishwasher) she sees that as a controlling behavior? I know lately my H keeps reminding me that I'm not his mother....so I quit doing his laundry and ironing...quit picking up after him...quit waiting on him...etc... I still make dinner, but if he's not around, we eat without him and put everything away so he has to dig through the fridge to find it. He's started loading his own dishes in the DW and washing clothes....and he absolutely sucks at ironing....it takes him forever!!!!!! Too bad for him!
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Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally