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No problem Jeff- I'll keep my 2x4 handy.

Thanks for the MLC invite....a Mediterranean villa and no worries does sound appealing, but I have to say that I can't because...... I love you, but I'm not IN love with you. And I just need some space! LOL!

That hurt!
What if I beg, and crawl on my hands and knees, and cry?
And plead, and beg some more?

Would that help?

Ummmmmm.....I guess I could prolong the agony, but I would love to have a DB success story, so....

Yes, OK- you've persuaded me (was that the shortest MLC ever?)!

Over to piecing we go!

You are killing me, girl! Your H is the stupidest man alive! Except for all of the other stupidest men alives whose wives are here!

(((((Lisa)))))

A DB success story, and I did every thing wrong!

((((Jeff)))). Enjoy the rest of the party- it's getting late here in Greenwich Mean Time, so I'll be making like Cinderella and getting in my pumpkin carriage!

L.xx

See you when I wee you Lisa! I think you are great!

((((Lisa))))

Sweet Dreams!

Jeff, any chance of sharing your thoughts with your W, pretty much the way you have here? That you're really struggling, not sure how much longer you can live in this situation, seriously thinking about making some changes...

Do you think this would provide the jolt she needs? Certainly has worked on all of us here.

Hi Ingrid.

When the time is right, which I think means when I am prepared to deal with any or the responses I can imagine (though probably not the actual one), I think that's about how I'll approach it. I think that might give her the chance to choose how she wants to handle it, which might be seen as less controlling by her. (She sees me as controlling, I don't think I really agree, but my opinion isn't really the one that counts, there.)

I really appreciate the support I get here. It completely baffles me that by typing a few kind, supportive words, I seem to be 'virtually attractive' to so many very kind people, especially you women. I know it isn't the real world, but it is an ego boost for someone in my position. It does make me thing maybe I am not the person W is convinced I am, you know?

I was just reading your thread....I was going to post, but didn't have a clue what to say. But, I usually think of something, so I'll be back!

Thanks again, Ingid!

((((Ingrid)))) You can't come in here and not get hug!

DH

You certainly have me looking at you with different eyes.

Uh, wait a sec .... ok, without the pirate eye patch I can honestly say "eyes".

Of course, one of them is cheap glass.

Arrrrrggghhhhh matey!!!!!!

Best yee keep yer lasses close, 'lest they be spirited away by ... well, Arrrrrggghhhh!!!!

(insert eye patch icon, wearing biker chaps)

It's quite stunning, actually! And eye opening, whether you have one or two!

I don't think I hug pirates in chaps, but you are welcome to a drink, and some cheesecake, Was!

And Ingrid, I know how to spell you name, just my fingers and this keyboard are not friends!