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Why do those of us who don't generally like conflicts find ourselves in constant conflicts in these R?

((((Jeff))))

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M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
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Conflict can be cleansing for the soul...if someone spent most of their lives avoiding conflict, it stands to reason they might be well clogged up. And perhaps the lesson for someone like that is in the way they express themselves in these new conflicts.

But it's just a thought...

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Ya got any more to go with that, Amy? Or do I have to think about it on my own? I think you have a really good point!

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Good afternoon DH...

I have some goodies for everyone. Chocolate with Bailey's in the center. Good to the last drop!

There is lots for everyone!

I emptied out the shelf!

There is enough for everyone to take a few home or to work. Nothing like a warm and fuzzy during the day!

Enjoy

E


"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......
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Hi E! Those sound really good! I might even drink coffee with those, and I'm not a coffee guy!

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How about a nice creamy mocha capuccino? Yummmmmmmmm.....

Hi Jeff- It looks like I've wandered in to your thread. Hello!


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Hello, new! One creamy mocha, coming up! You'll want to grab a couple of E's chocolates, I'm sure!

I'm gonna need a bigger hot tub!

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Hey DH!

Liked Amy's post. Your thread is full of nuggets of wisdom (as opposed to the chicken kind)

Originally Posted By: AmyC
Conflict can be cleansing for the soul...if someone spent most of their lives avoiding conflict, it stands to reason they might be well clogged up.


My H is a conflict avoider- I think he'd rather take his eye out with a spoon than have an argument!

Hope you're having a good day today,

OD

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I don't think I'd read your thread before, new, don't know how I missed it. Give you little one a hug for me, please! Our "baby" is ten, and still loves hugs, but it isn't the same!

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Originally Posted By: One Day
Hey DH!

Liked Amy's post. Your thread is full of nuggets of wisdom (as opposed to the chicken kind)

Originally Posted By: AmyC
Conflict can be cleansing for the soul...if someone spent most of their lives avoiding conflict, it stands to reason they might be well clogged up.


My H is a conflict avoider- I think he'd rather take his eye out with a spoon than have an argument!

Hope you're having a good day today,

OD


I think Amy is right. I don't know yet what to do with that, but as you said, it is another nugget!

Thanks for coming by, I hope you got a couple of those chocolates E is pushing!

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