So I put the kids down to sleep last night and proceeded to fall asleep myself on the couch with H. He attempted to get something going but I wasn't having any of it. I was exhausted. Jeez, come on, every day this week already. A woman needs to rest. Be careful what you wish for.
Well, this morning, as he was shuffling the kids off to swim lessons, he said "Don't think we are not hving sex this afternoon. I dare you to stop me. In fact I encourage it."
So I take that as an open invitation to put up a fight. We'll see if he can step up to the challenge, lol.
So his initiative is still full force. But I need to make sure today goes well, and by that I mean tell him with some words of affirmation how much I'm enjoying this time together. I don't think I do that enough. I need to praise more, complain less. See, I'm learning.
Good ideas Karen. We still haven't completed the "sexual menu" task I mentioned but I think I may need to save that for when the kids aren't hovering around in another room. Oh, and I've already got plans for hot sex in different parts of the house when the kids are at grandma's. Yippee!
So ultru-submissive or top him? hmmmm.... I'll see how my mood is later and let you know the results.
Sorry for the thread steal LFL... yes, I'm okay, thanks for asking.
How bout that ice rink deal, huh? And a restaurant for your Kill It N' Grill It?
There is nothing, nothing on this planet, like a man with a vision. Soon as those hockey camps start, hunt my azz down... EDITED--EMAIL NOT ALLOWED.. ONLY email if it is a joint account with you and Ms. IC, or have her email me, k?
Hang your hat on that dream.... but azz and GET there.
So ultru-submissive or top him? hmmmm.... I'll see how my mood is later and let you know the results.
Why not both?
We finally completed a "flip" maneuver, starting with her on top and ending with me on top without breaking contact. It was a big hit. Since I'm not talking to him, you'd have to choreograph the flip in whichever direction you like.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
Funny you said that Eddie because that's basically what happened.
H and I had a great day.
This afternoon we went upstairs while the kids watched a dvd. Actually, I went upstairs first and he was taking forever to get the dvd to work. So...I decided to start without him. By the time he got upstairs I was about ready to explode. I jumped on top of him and I think my assertiveness through him for a loop. Poor guy didn't know what hit him. But he was having none of it for some reason. He said "uh-uh, I don't think so" in a devious voice and flipped me over fast and hard. He pinned my arms down to my sides and used his mouth on me. Well, that took about 30 seconds since I was already primed and ready to go. This also gets him totally horny so as soon as I was having an amazing O he thrust into me and told me to talk dirty to him. Not like him at all. And even LFL is too shy to say exactly what happened next but let's just say I gave him much deserved affirmations on his style and technique. It was perfect.
So I was able to cook our meal with my aftersex glow just as I hoped. Ate too much but I figure I got at least a little exercise today.
And so today's lesson is that afternoon sex is the way to go. Not too tired yet and gives you a great start to the evening. Also ladies (or gentlemen), if you are feeling a little passive, it is hot to masturbate a little before the action starts because it makes you much more aggressive with your partner. Class dismissed.
Thanks Karen and LFL 
Not like him at all. And even LFL is too shy to say exactly what happened next but let's just say I gave him much deserved affirmations on his style and technique. It was perfect.