It's funny, as I began to read your thread, I had this little thought of, man, if I could be more like her, lol, maybe she could teach me! Then you mention you're a teacher. LOL! Me too! Actually, I think the death of my mom in '95, my entrance into teaching in '97 and my marriage in '98 is what turned me into a more no-nonsense, business first type person. I even lost interest somewhat in music, which had always been a huge thing with me.
Funny, you end with "class dismissed." I am dying to know what you said that "even you" dared not say on the board. You should start an "educational" thread. LFL's private online lessons!!
I keep remembering MJ's advice to me to say anything that involved the word c@ck. I have thought it but it still sounds so uncomfortable for me, I have not been able to utter it. I'm guessing you don't have that problem!
Sorry to divert from your sitch, I'm just amazed. Coming to this bb has really shown me how sex looks in other married couples. Most of the examples we've seen in our personal lives are not very positive "sex role models." Kind of like Stormchaser said his wife's friends at work all say he's getting more than any of their husbands and he should just be glad for what he's getting.
WTG, LFL!! And most of all, WTG for Mr. LFL! I don't understand the transformation, but it's pretty astounding!!
Lol! Thanks zuzu. I'm as amazed as you by this transformation. I'm enjoying the ride for now and certainly will be extra vigilant to make sure it lasts. H said last night in bed "I'm never going back to the way things were." So at least he is thinking the same as me!
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I am dying to know what you said that "even you" dared not say on the board. You should start an "educational" thread. LFL's private online lessons!!
Nah. I think people can figure this stuff out on their own if they just open themselves up to the possibilities.
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I keep remembering MJ's advice to me to say anything that involved the word c@ck.
Lol! Yes, that word was uttered several times by me. It seems funny to say all that stuff when just sitting here at the computer thinking about it, but when you are in the midst of the hot sex, it seems to flow right out of my mouth. lol
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Coming to this bb has really shown me how sex looks in other married couples. Most of the examples we've seen in our personal lives are not very positive "sex role models."
That's so true. And I think it helps to surround yourself with people who are not all uptight about sex. They help you relax about it too. I have a girlfriend who has taught me a thing or two so that's been fun. Hearing only from friends/couples about how boring and bad their SL is, is just a real downer. Glad I can be an example of a M couple going from one extreme to the other. And let me tell you, my H is amazing right now. Who knew! The man is acting hornier than me, and that's saying something.
Then you mention you're a teacher. LOL! Me too! Actually, I think the death of my mom in '95, my entrance into teaching in '97 and my marriage in '98 is what turned me into a more no-nonsense, business first type person. I even lost interest somewhat in music, which had always been a huge thing with me. 
It seems funny to say all that stuff when just sitting here at the computer thinking about it, but when you are in the midst of the hot sex, it seems to flow right out of my mouth. lol
Thanks Karen and LFL