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Do they expect to be lovers in a future life too?

Wishing you a happy New Year Foo - will email you to catch up soon.


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How about this one:

"OP said we should each try to work on saving our own marriages if possible." But they still went full tilt forward with the A anyway!


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OK I win....




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Originally Posted By: theoden
About OM:

"We were lovers in a former life."



I have to agree with ya theo, This needs to be the title for the "why I had an affair book"

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After H told me to get together with his divorced brother

H -Don't forget to wear a condom?

E-Why are you telling me this?Why do you care?

H-I just want you to be protected( I should have protected myself against his stupid selfless acts, but thanks for caring )

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E-Wife,

that really sucks!


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Theo!

I got the SAME LINE.
"Lovers in a former life"

Oh yes! Unbelievable but true! Crack me up!

There was lots of "destiny" and "fate" mixed in there too.
But the whims of fate change rapidly - now OM has moved on to another woman! Hee hee!

I guess W and OM will have to wait for the next life to be lovers again...


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How about "It's a guy thing."

or

After getting caught, "It's an addiction. Can I stay if I get counseling?" A week later, "I really don't believe in counselors."

or when I asked how he would feel if I were cheating, "I'd think I was doing something wrong." (so it's my fault that he cheats).

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oh yeah, I got the same line, wordweaver, about "I'd think I was doing something wrong."

yep, that's exactly what he'd think.

my personal favorite I think, out of all the ones h has thrown on me, is that this is all harder on him than it is on me. that I have it easy, he's the one suffering.


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"Not all marriages are meant to last"

Oh, now I understand everything!!


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