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oh, for the want of a big bath tub

ah well....


we had an R talk last night
and it was good

i think...

H reads my things here and gets all bent
then calls at work to say he's moving out
but he's not moving out
he's gonna stay
and do counseling
and meetings

I think, well, I FEEL like I made myself clear last night.
I hope.


Thanks KIP, good idea.

He's got a drawer full of them somewhere, but it never hurts to restate what's important.



God Bless

God Never Screams

Precious Lord
The timer sounded long ago
and I just sat here
staring at my impossibly inept pawns
silent
wondering which move will
inflict the least damage
until forfieture became
my only option
and You waited
waited
like Regis asking, "Is that your final answer?"
and finally I replied, "yes,
sweet lord who holds my father in the sky,
yes."
Yes
So swift and excellent your will
your hand
like a whisper
moved me into mate








(I apologize for the crude poem above...
I'm letting God fix my problems now
and, as usual
I stand amazed...)

Charcoal,

Sorry to hog in on your thread.

I asked Dreama tonight if she had e-mailed you. She responded with a short, "No, I dont have an e-mail address!" Then she told me she didnt read this stuff anymore because she didnt have time. I asked her what she meant. She said that if she felt like it she would.

I dont want to force it on her, but I think coming from someone else, especially you, that she might listen and open up about our sitch. I want her to be able to talk to someone that can relate, but is also very knowledged about this whole thing. SIL is good for support, but I dont think she can offer much advice.

I told my W that I would set her up an e-mail account, but I dont know if she would e-mail you or not. Do you have any ideas on how I could get her to talk to you? Im afraid that if I propose anything, it would be rejected simply because it would be percieved as my idea.

Do you have any ideas that would make it seem like it wasnt my idea? Could I e-mail you my phone # and have you call her sometime? I know it would be long distance and Im not sure how that would affect things.

Thanks for your help charcoal. I appreciate everything you have done so far in trying to help us out. You can e-mail me at blinddeafmute101@yahoo.com if you want to.

Thanks again.

Charcoal,
I love the poem!!!!!
It rocks
well until the crude statement!
Amazing!
and both tubs at our houses are small baby....improvise and have fun!!!!

Quoting Floyd101:

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Do you have any ideas that would make it seem like it wasnt my idea?

Thanks again.

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Probably by editing your post if possible so she doesn't see that it was your idea! In case she does read.

And don't push her too much, or you'll push her completely away.

hey floyd... i got your email and i think one way to do it is to set up an email for dreama and give me the email address... i'll send her an email and if she wants to talk to me she will. if she doesn't, hey, I can understand that too...
haven't read your thread in a week or so, hope you guys are working on it...

thanks for thinking of me
it means a lot




oh, and KIP ~ thanks to you, too