I will say something like "That's okay. I like it when a guy brags on himself. Saves me the trouble."
Yeah. I've always said I don't mind a guy being cocky as long as he has something to be cocky ABOUT.
Self-deprecation makes me nuts whether a man does it or a woman. It's hard not to see self-deprecation either as self-loathing or as fishing for compliments. Both of those are really unattractive.
I remember MsHD from when everyone was posting pictures a few years ago. What an exceedingly handsome woman. Not just great looks but style. Doesn't surprise me at all HD's still attracted to her. ;\)
I remember her as attractive too but more along the lines of really cute with big boobs rather than stylish. It's hard to be stylish when you have big boobs. Stupid fashion industry.
I have her pic but obviously I won't post it. Just trust me. But look what I did find while digging through that old harddrive. And we weren't even talking bunnies back then.
I have her pic but obviously I won't post it. Just trust me. ;\) But look what I did find while digging through that old harddrive. And we weren't even talking bunnies back then.
LOL- Like I said, strong bunny can take on weak wolf any day. Just a simple matter of energy transfer like in Aikido. Also, if you dropped a bunny and a wolf from a tall building into a brier patch which one do you think would bounce better? Of course, B'rer Rabbit was really kind of a monkey in a bunny suit but that's a whole 'nother story.
It's too bad that I'm such a reserved person otherwise I would tell you guys what I e-mailed back to the posturer. It was pretty funny.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
There is a big differance between doing it because you want to, and doing it as a covert contract. You dont have to fetch coffee and pay for movie tickets or do foot rubs to EARN sex. That exists only in Your mind. Not hers. If it exists in her mind, it was put there.
When I did/do that I am not trying to earn sex. I dont feel cheated if it doesnt happen. Im doing her a favor.
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If youve created a dynamic where you have to earn sex, (and why would she want to change that? Its the worlds oldest profession. ) then your going to have to fix it in your head first, before you can change it.
Amen.
And .... "That rabbit's dynamite!!!"
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
I must admit that I hesitated before replying to such a hopelessly romantic e-mail. Even if I wasn't a chronic underachiever, I can assure you that I would fail to attain gold star status (I am assuming that after a certain number of silver stars were earned a gold star would be warranted) for one of the two or three usual and easily predictable reasons. However, I do admire and/or respect your unwillingness to compromise and/or placate in pursuit of your goal and/or desire.
Jenny
P.S. Jim Harrison is definitely on my much-appreciated list.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
J, I feel your response was entirely too nice for that creep.
Lil, I too, appreciate good grammar, but I am in no position to cast stones, especially as it pertains to typos. Mostly, I try to look for the sentiment behind the message, and you are right on that account as well: the guy is a loser. And he has a second grammatical mistake there...any takers?
J, I feel your response was entirely too nice for that creep.
The odds are that he does too. Dontcha know that when a guy pinches your *ss getting his face slapped is one of the reactions he anticipates and almost certainly likes 'cause it makes him feel like a big bad predator. I'm too lazy/bored/despondent at the moment to deal with men who need that much stimulation so I tried to do the equivalent of saying "I would slap your face but I'm a bit fatigued, would you care to sit down and chat a bit?" Either he'll get confused and wander away or he'll be amused and respond intelligently. IOW, I am testing to see if he is a meta-wolf which I would like or a clueless monkey which I wouldn't.
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"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
But look what I did find while digging through that old harddrive. And we weren't even talking bunnies back then.