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haha, not to make light of it but its all the same sh*t isnt it? I definitely got the "I have been living my life to make everyone else happy" speech. What a joke.

True, true. It's a secret class they must all attend to be able to say all the right things and justify their actions.

Saffie,

Hope you had a great xmas.

Not making light of your feelings or situation but you are so funny!

Nocode - I got that one too "We never should have been together - I never should have married you" (20 years later)
"I'm working on myself"
"Iv'e changed"
"Ive been unhappy for years"
"I dont love you and you will see you dont love me"
Its amazing - you take it so personal - then when I read what you guys heard - its like they have taken a "cheat on your spouse course - heres what to say" Ha

Thanks Foo

Thinking of you!!!!!! Hope you had a good time with your kids

awww, you all are missing my favorite one:

"you'll never trust me again, so why should we bother trying."

Sally!!

You are so right. I can't believe I forgot that one. I think my H's quote was.....

"Why would you want to be with someone you can't trust anyway....I just can't see it getting any better".

Sue

LOL, how did I forget that one. It was put to me this way, "Why would you ever WANT me back, you wont ever be able to trust me".
Hell, I am considering starting a Begging/Pleading /threatenting thread. I am sure we have all not HEARD the same crap, but have probably SAID all the same things too!

Hah! My spouse says she has trust issues with me! And I am not the one who had an A!

Doesn't that take the cake?

Oh no doubt. The WHOLE thing has been turned around on me, I have been told "You have had so many chances" and "You had it all in YOUR hands." Thats a whole nother thread! Its just nice to know we share a common insanity.