"Yes, I see changes, but I'm afraid they won't stay."
"Your word means nothing to me, I need action."
"I see action, but I still want a divorce."
"Why are you trying to change my mind??"
"You aren't my soulmate."
"It doesn't matter that I've only known her 9 months."
"It's not about HER, it's about US."
"I don't see a future with her."
"I don't want to stop seeing her. She is nice to me."
"I should have left years ago. (We have an almost 2 yr old.)"
"I should have said something about my unhappiness." (Now there's an idea!)
"I'm too tired to talk tonight. Let's talk Thursday."
(On Thursday) "I didn't have much to say."
When I say ANYTHING or ask ANYTHING: "You're too critical", "You always have to win", "I don't know".
Me 41 H 47 D9 S3 M 16 yrs WAH Sep 07 PA Aug 07 12/07 Admitted A 1/08 C 1/15 H needs me 5/7/08 came home 7/08 We moved to MD 10/08 M bad again 11/24/08 fled to GA(OW),filed D 12/8/08 Back in MD 12/23/08 I countered 12/29/08 path back?
"it just happened. I did not want it to it just did" (how the f##k does it just happen. Just tell me)
"it has nothing to do with him, it was me" (so you pursued him. So it did not just happen)
"I was gone emotionally a long time ago" (Thanks for telling me!)
"I am not attracted to you anymore and I can not live in a marriage without sex" (so when you had multiple O's - blush a week before the bomb were you faking it?). She's good, really good!!(at acting)
"I do not know who I am anymore, I need to find myself"
"I should not have complicated this by bringing OM into it. I regret doing that but I can not turn back the clock." (see previous quote. How can you find yourself when you went straight to another R).
Is this Klingon they talk because it is a different language to me.
This one got me too...(this was before I found anything out)
- I flirt with alot of people, but that's it, it never goes any further (this is while we were ML! WTH!!!! I guess I trusted him TOO much!!!!)(if I could go back I would punch him right there and then)
When I caught him at the corner phone -I know you think I'm having an affair, I was calling my friend to see what's up tonight ( what a trusting fool I was!)
about the extra motorcycle helmet he had in his sadlebags on the Harley- "you think I'm having an affair...no... it's in case someone steals the other helmet" (do I look like the skank your fcuking?(airhaead?) they must have taken you're brain too!)
Just to let everyone know, I'm not that stupid,this stuff happened over a long period of time
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
it just happened. I did not want it to it just did" (how the f##k does it just happen. Just tell me)
I've been reading this thread with interest. I didn't get all these quotes but out of the ones I did get, this one takes the cake. I did get this one. I agree, Foo. How the F did it JUST HAPPEN. I say booking a hotel room for their first night together, on a night they knew I was out of the house, then spending the night in it means it DIDN'T JUST HAPPEN. Give me a break.
However, on the other end of the spectrum, my H made up for that with this quote, which went a long way with me, "I'm going to hell because it [the A] wasn't the right thing to do." So if anyone doubts that good things can come out of the mouths of an WAS, yes it does happen.
