I think letting go and letting God is the best and probably the only option for you right now. I think a lot of damage was done by calling ow's husband. (honestly, I'd have done the same thing ) He'll be angry for a while over that one. And he'll likely tell everyone how "crazy" you are.
Let go for know. Let things lie for awhile.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Good advice from Ms.Ladybug. I think you did what you needed to do to cope. I applaud you for wanting to work it out still. I have to keep reminding myself that my husband is the husband that I married. It is getting harder and harder because when I read these boards I see so much of what he has done to me and then I start feeling like F--ck him! I have to keep in mind that I am a strong proponent of marriage and family. It is what I know and what I come from and I know it is the best thing for my son even though my husband is being a being a big, fat d--ck right now.
) He'll be angry for a while over that one. And he'll likely tell everyone how "crazy" you are.