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Remembered a few more:

"Why would you WANT to be with ME anyway?"

"I want you to work on yourself"

"You dont KNOW me"

Okay add this one to the books...

-You're more beautiful than you have ever been????? ( thanks for noticing?!?!)

-you wil have no problem finding some one, you should hook up with my brother( he loves his brother! he and his wife just divorced) this one blew me away!!!!!

-i can't give you what you need

-the kids have no clue, they don't notice any difference

- i don't care about the money

- i want to be happy for a change

- it's not you it's me

-don't tell anyone( yea right!!!keep your own dirty secrets, I'm not!)

- I don't care about the Harley
- I don't care about the boat
- until I went to appraise stuff for the seperation

- I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY ( yea thanks for the early warning )

- about OW "we just clicked"

-she worked out all the time, her , her , her.. Very self centered beatch, " you know how I feel about people who go to the gym all of the time ( yea.. you fcuk them?)

- don't cry, it hurts me too much ( ya think... i'm hurting too???)

- oh and did I mention "please don't tell anyone"? NOT..if they ask I'll tell the truth

All this from a man whom I adored with all my heart.

E

Yeah love that one and have gotten it too:

"Its not you, its ME"

Then they proceed to tell you everything you have done wrong to justify another affair...*crazy*

Not only do they give you a list, they can remember only the negative stuff that has happened in the last 25 years.

Geez.. H could be making this crap up because I would really have to rack my brain to remember this stuff. I'm sure alot of it is made up.

Why would he stay for 25 years if it was so bad?

E

Here's a couple I got:

"Yea, we had some good times, but we've had more bad times than good."

"I think OW knows me better than you." (he'd known her 3 weeks)

"I know you're hurting and in a lot of pain"

The "I just need space, you are not giving me space"

"Our child will be better off in a loving home."

"OW gives me the attention I need."

"I hope you meet someone that will give you everything I didn't"

"I'm truly happy with OW." (Yet, he still wants to have sex with me)

"We're just friends. Sex is the last thing on my mind." - Right!!!

"We get along better now that we are separated."

I'm sure there are a ton more. What an ass.

Thought of another one:

"You would really like OW if the circumstances were different." Oh, yes I'm sure I would really love a no values, no morals type of woman that has an affair with a married man who has a pregnant wife.

Blindsided-

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Especially being pregnant. What an a$$.

Yeah, I've seen emails from OW to my H saying....We taught each other the real thing....I love you.

What a load of CRAP. Yeah, you taught each other that it's okay to cheat on your spouses and leave your children in the dust! You talk on the phone and steal time with each other behind your spouse's backs. Yeah, that's the real thing. No LADY, the hell that you're making the rest of us live is THE REAL THING!! Get out of your fantasy world!

Aaahheemmm....Just needed to vent!

Thank you!

SueS

Blindsided and SueS, that is incredibly COLD what they have said t you. I guess thats where I am too but hope I never have to hear that!

A few more....

-we only did it once( yea that's why I have 2 receipts from 2 different motels on 2 different nights with her phone number on it)

- she'd not bad,everyone thinks she is because she flirts with all the guys (maybe because everyone but you knows she's bad!!!! DUH)

-E-Why the F--k are you calling her??? H -To tell her I can't talk to her because you are home (after I caught him sneeking a call to her ) WTH

I cannot imagine where I have learned these words from because I NEVER swore before MLC discovery and on day of exposure I think I created some that don't even exist.

-She just wants to make a life for her son (she's married and her husband is a nice guy, and you're going to save her ...right give me a break!!!!)

-What kind of a slut sleeps with a married man????(oops I forgot, you slept with a married woman!)

-She's just a friend( I don't sleep with my GUY friends. Humm I wonder if this is a requirement for your friendship?)

-(about going to tanning booth) I think bald guys look aweful with white skin (ohhh but for the last 5 years you were o.k. with it?)

-(about shopping at the Gap) S,look at the pants I got what a great deal! S yea, nice dad

-about perfume i found in his car "SEXUAL" H-I think bought it? ( well I think you would know because it's in with empty pkg of viagra that I have never seen!!!!!!)

-(I threw the viagra at him whe I found it and he put them back in the package and taped the foil back on) E- What is this? H -I may need these E-for who? H- I don't know yet ....me UGGGGGGG!!!!!


Basically everything that has come out og his MLC mouth has been unbelieveable .

Where do they get this stuff!!!

E

I love this! I have heard some of these too, but here are a few that my H fed to me.

"We're soulmates"

"We're like...the same person" (uh-huh)

"She is the one keeping our marriage together." (uh...what??!!)

Then there is the usual "We're just friends" Do you usually go away with your friends, lie about it, take your booby oil and kama sutra sensous massage oil and various sex toys, then insist that nothing happened and that she slept on the couch in your shared hotel room?

Since my H has multiple affairs with different women at the same time, encouraged by his EA OW, I have found some strange things in the house. A framed glamour photo of one of his wh#res which he says is the picture that came with the frame. Yeah, cheap frames always come with a professionally done photo with the studio name on the back.

"I'm not lying" (o..kaaay)

"I was at work" (suuuurrre)

"I bought this bracelet for myself" (I think not)

I'll let you know if I remember any more.