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My H is trying to cozy up to the OW's X. The X is a know Hollywood type that my H has been courting since we moved to LA. Guess he figures sleeping with his X and hanging with his kids will do it. Logically delusional. Is that pimping?

That's just weird! I'd think it would make him more likely to get shot, but perhaps the Hollywood types are different! Maybe it's just a plot for a new TV series that we won't need to watch!

I think I need to go wash my eyes out, or something!

I did read what E said right, didn't I?

imp


You are funny but, the beer is for MY girlfriends husband.

If it was for his girlfriends husband I would have threw the case at my H!

I wouldn't let H use my cross border shopping for his...his....whatever!

When I came home there was a gift certificate on the counter for him from the same town OW is from . I said Oh what did she get you a gift certificate for Christmas?

He said no it was from a guy from work he got the whole shift one for Christmas.Only $5

Then he explained it again in great detail about 1/2 hour later, being very clear that he had no idea where the heck that place is.

I was sitting downstairs with him watching football for a bit and just before i came upstairs I said" it doesn't really feel like Christmas does it" and he agreed


Then I said "just think it will be our last Christmas together"
He looked right at me to see if I was crying, that would have been the old me. I did not although I could have.
Waited a few minutes and started talking about the laundry (had to change the subject or the waterworks would have started)

Then I folded clothes and am up here now

E (note to self, keep confident, DB like crazy, keep confident, don't cry )

I'm glad I misread that. Things are bad enough without being weird, too!

You were looking for a reaction. It never works.

IMP

That's because E is not in LA.:)

Ok, I give up, short1, I don't get it.

IMP

Dry misread a post by enlighten(E) about getting beer for her girlfriend's husband, thinking the beer was for OW's H.

I didn't read the original and replied to Dry's post. My H really is trying to cozy up to the X of his OW, BTW.

Then Dry realized the error and I made a joke (lame) that if E was in LA, CA the idea of hanging out with the X would be normal.

Recently, I had this happen. I was with two friends at a film. My girlfriend was the 2nd wife (her 1st H) of this man J. The other friend with us was J's 3rd wife(she's been married and Divorced again since). As we waited J's 4th wife and his kids arrived. Then J arrived with his current girlfriend. The 4th wife laughed and said gee if only the 1st wife was here we could have a reunion.

short1,

I have had occasion to hang out with my ex.

IMP