Thanks for the therapy. I think I might try some. It would sure be fun.
YoYo One thing to think about. Everyone keeps reminding me. You are the only one that is going to look out for you. He is going to look out for him self especially financially. If he wants to come back I would set the ground rules so it wasn't like before... Just remember he is worried about money not you if you go for a divorce not that you want to take him to the cleaners (not that, that thought has not passed thru my head a time or too) Just be cautious and take care of yourself and the girls. Hang in there and see how the wind is blowing and get a feel for what is actually going thru his head.. I think like my H, yours and mine really do not know what they want themselves.
I've been reading up on threads. Is it a full moon? It seems all of the WAS have gotten together and decided to "try" to ruin our holidays, mine included. Guess what, they can't if we don't let them!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Good for you girls! I loved Sally's story about taking her kids to Santa this afternoon. There is so much fun, those sour pusses are like Grinches trying to take all the fun away.
Last Saturday I was involved with the fundraiser, Breakfast for Santa for my philantrophic group. I was so impressed by how many dads were there. Some dads came with the whole family and some came with just the kids. I thought wow, I can't imagine my H ever bringing the girls to something like that by himself. I bet each and everyone of the dads on here would do it!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
