I believe spouses that stay in this misery actually enjoy misery, that is where they are comfortable, like my spouse i think she does not know how to be loved and that i was the first person who trully loved her and she ran from it. just a thought maybe some similarities there
Not sure if you were referring to me or him?
I can assure, I do not enjoy any of this.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Pretty sure he was refering to H, who, as we all know, is a bit of a donkey. Funny (in an "oh, dear" not "ha ha" way) that he's still using the tools left at his disposal to attempt to control you.
Hang in there. Maybe you'll find that JS lookalike who's cool with casual dating. Get thee to Target!
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
