I never wanted to bring you into that post Happy, but you were heavily on my mind, as well as the trials and tribulations of piercing from my own experience and the conversations and concerns not expressed publically with others.
If anything we have learned LBS's AND MLCers is that this takes time, and only consistant actions can be held for the current truth.
Happy, man...you don't need to be here if it is not good for you. I REALLY REALLY want you to know that. Not like you don't. You know where your priorieties are, you also know how useless at times it is to try and convince someone of a course of action.
Sometimes the child really has to burn their hand on the stove to learn a lesson.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
angelica take a number as from what I have seen this past week my name has been taken in vain by many. but I am not mad about it. I did a lot of growing up while I was away. It takes a long time to recover from MLC. so understand when I see this poster writing about his life as if he had arrived it really infuriates me. he has no [censored] idea as to how mauch dammage he can potentially cause by posting his story right now. he doesn;t get it because he is thriving on the attention and his ego floweth over. but it will hit him like a ton of bricks. and she closes her eyes to the whole situation. My husband is home fiddledeedee now all is well with the world. [censored] I would love to be a fly on the [censored] wall when the lights finally come on for them.
We all have to plough this furrow alone. My post to you was intended to be lighthearted. Actually I have written of you with affection and respect!!!
There is certainly something a little strange in the state of Denmark, but I do hope that all is well with you.
As for me, I have learned a lot, and am living in interesting times!
Good to see you back, but don't let the b*stards grind you down - as if!!
PS Saw your post to Cinders - hope this doesn't sound patronising but the girl is doing VERY well. Her fairy godmothers and godfathers are very proud of her.