I did talk to him last night and said I don't think it is right to be supporting her the way he did and taking her on a paid vacation. He surprisingly agreed that he needed to get his card back from her and things. I said even if you are living there you are not married to her you are still married to me and it is not good business for me to allow that. We are still financially involved and its not right. I said it was a bad example for his boys and hard on everyone. He did say that was the way it is. It was almost like he wanted to get caught or me to say something. He did say something tothe fact that relationships are not cracked up to be what they are supposed to be and when he got out of this one he wasn't sure he'd get into another..Ya right....He said it was one big mess that he shouldn't be doing what he is and he hated that I was alone. That it wasn't right....He might have just been talking. Rollercoaster ride once again. I do think that if we ever get the big D that it won't be way he thinks its going to be. He was down last night trying to do his accounting. But during this MLC he really thinks he needs to live the next 50years different which we all do thats why you don't learn all this valuable information til you are our age....I wish I knew what I do now when I was in my early 30's.
Hope everyone has a good day.
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How are you? It is so good to hear from you...How is everything going it must be going well? Thank you for thinking of me. I miss writing you.
Thanks Mattie How are you doing? enough about me. Are you still going somewhere for christmas?
Thanks YOYO They still know how to get to us don't they!!!
Penny, if are still reading along just say hi. I'll be out of town for a week and would like to know you are ok. I understand you might just be busy considering the time of year.....but I miss hearing from you! Just in case I don't hear from you, I do hope you manage to get through the holidays with a little bit of relaxation and enjoyment!
Hi Mattie, I have been reading but just haven't had the motivation to write. I can't wait til the holidays are over. I'm doing OK managing to get thru the holidays...I actually have all the shopping done but a couple things and they are wrapped which is good for me. I'm sorry I haven't posted but been up and down. Did have 6 days of parties and dinners to go to. I think everyone was trying to keep me busy. One was a dance and dinner lots of old friends so I think I pasted the fun barrier by a long ways. We danced all night it was so fun. I think they were all trying to figure out who they could set me up with. What friends I have!!! They were saying you have waited long enough. My H finally said he would be around for christmas at my parents and his parents on christmas eve. How are you making it? Where are you going for christmas?
Hope everyone has a MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
Penny, thanks for responding. Just wanted you to know I care. D17 and I are going to my sister's. My parents will be there, too. It will be good for me to be out of the house!
