Our children are really our blessings - they are the only thing that have ever made my H's OW do a double take. Whatever I did or said was like water off a duck's back. She didn't even appear to care about her own children but then they were too young to really understand. I know if she was dead my kids would dance on her grave - which isn't nice but I don't care. I hope the woman rots in hell eventually.
On a nicer note, hi to all you guys. Fighting some demons at the moment so I haven't been on much. A close friend who was only my age died on Monday. It wasn't an accident, she was ill but no-one expected her to die yet. She was working two jobs and trapped in a M with a man who had no for her or compassion. She left behind boys aged 15 and 13. It has hit me very hard. I deal with her business dealings so have some stuff to finish up for her and it's very painful - I find it hard to interact with her H knowing how much of a living hell he made her life. It shows me how lucky I am to have the love of my H.
Take care all of you. You are very much in my thoughts - even when I don't post. Those of you that have got my email, (or know me - it's in my profile), drop me a line if you feel like it. It is always nice to log on to some friendly communications.
God Bless
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Hugs and condolences, to you and your friend's family. I am thinking and praying for her children above all.
It is times like these we are forced to stop and realize that no matter how bad things are, they can always get worse -- and we must remember to be thankful for what we have now, and cherish each moment, because it might not be here tomorrow.
