Umm, yeah. SallyM. About you being cold...let's tell the nice folks out there know what your thermostats are set on right now......
edie, I totally understand what you are saying. I do. Even if H made the decision to leave/divorce, I feel empowered because I am SO much more ready for it than I was. And that's because of the work *I* did, not the work H did to knock me down. I have confidence in myself and my ability to move on if I must, and that helps me. Thanks for reading this unlockable thread!
lwb, I'll have you know in rebellion to my h being a complete and utter selfish ass, I have bumped my thermostat up to 59 upstairs! and I've been keeping the downstairs one at 64 during the day...its a heatwave! but outside, boy, its cold outside. soooo cold. soooo cold, and noone to keep me warm. sigh. grumble grumble.
oh, cabana boy!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Ohio Mark has volunteered to be the cabana boy. I have all the other criteria: 80 degree days, white sand beaches and a fruity drink. Come on down. And I'll borrow your book. I've been wanting to read it.
I know Mark is strong enough to be the cabana boy but I wish I wasn't in his shoes to be up in the sandy beach for a long time, because Sarah, the temperatures in the tropics by day can reach easily a 104F.
I suggest we all go to some place where the surfers go, amazing view , sip tons of coconut water and Mark, there will be some cabana ladies for you too.
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